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[โ€“] PartysPuppyGirl@hexbear.net 7 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I have a purse which is just kinda meh, which has been fine, but its not that large so its annoying as I always have slightly more stuff than can fit in the purse

Would getting a large purse be weird? IDK why I am trending towards it being like not feminine or some shit, maybe its just brainworms I need to prune Also I guess same thing about a backpack, but with an added downside of being less convenient

[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 7 points 1 week ago (3 children)

There is nothing un feminine about a big purse? Gotta be honest, not even sure where you could've heard that or where that could've come from. People are definitely weird about backpack people (like on twitter or whatever there's people who mock adults not in school who were backpacks, I do cause I take my clothes and a spare change of scrubs to work). But Ive never heard someone being... clocky? for having a big purse.

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Work being picky about me not working too many hours, very annoying. Just gimme the hours.. have trainings and stuff next month too. I think I can ditch a few shifts and skate under their limits.

[โ€“] Azarova@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

there should be a button on the front page that refreshes the tagline

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[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Recently watched Pacific rim. Surprisingly fun movie. Just a few comments. Mild spoilers for the movie.

  1. Why the fuck are humans not using nukes against kaijus even though nukes seem to be perfectly effective against them, and way more sensible than sending slow ass robot tin cans piloted by people with daddy issues?

  2. Damn, that chain sword thing was really cool. It cut through the kaijis like butter. WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU FIST FIGHTING THE KAIJU WHEN YOU HAVE A SWORD?!?!?

  3. The nerd scientist character is cute, funny and husband material

  4. The singular Japanese girl character who is a martial artist is not treated in a cringe weeby way. Impressive.

[โ€“] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 1 week ago
  1. mechs are cool
  2. fistfighting mechs are cool (and a genre staple)
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[โ€“] musicenjoyer@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Idk if getting testing for ADHD is worth it, testing for autism was nothing more than a nuisance. Somehow left with even less of an understanding. On the other hand ,I keep losing things and feel very hyper

skateboard yearning/posting

spoilerWant to skate so badly. Not even biking satisfies the urge.

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I have heard some really good things from some of the adhd'ers in my life about getting put on meds.

[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

There's also non stimulant meds (intuniv, atmoxetine) that help some people and don't have all the headaches of stimulant (being treated like a criminal, unstable supply etc).

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Another movie review with only mild spoilers.

This time it's for "tenet". It's a movie about a world where tech has been invented to reverse the flow of time for chosen objects. Other than the interesting setting, it is just an American action movie with everything that entails.

Scientific accuracy/inaccuracy:

The only blatantly inaccurate part about the movie was when they aparantly forgot that "reverse time travelling matter" should just combine with forward moving matter and annihilate. But if the movie kept to this aspect, you literally couldn't have a movie (cause everything would explode and die).

I do like that they otherwise kept the techno babble and incoherent nonsense to basically 0. The tech is basically magic. You don't need to make up some bs about how it works.

Action scenes:

Cool, but mostly confusing. A lot of the action I just couldn't follow. Partially cause I was zooted while watching the movie. And partially because the movie has no fucking chill to let you process what is happening on screen.

Sometimes it's fine. I do like how often, the movie will just omit showing you things when it's easy to figure out what probably happened.

Plot:

The plot is basically action movie protagonist saves the world. And I don't think he even has a name. He's just called "protagonist". I did think it was sad that we didn't see the core concept of backwards moving shit be explored more. The most they do with the concept of backwards moving objects is set up a couple of plot twists and shit.

Characters:

A couple of fairly serviceable characters forms the main cast. But most of their backstories are just ignored. For example, why is our protagonist so ... posh? I think he also just randomly speaks Japanese at one point?????

Conclusion:

Watch this movie. It's fun that makes you go "woah, that's funky" a few times. Be sure to be high. It helps.

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[โ€“] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago

geordi-no an~~he~~donia

geordi-yes anshedonia

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago

Left an astral projected dream invite with someone just now, hope she seems my friend request and adds me catgirl-flop it's exhausting but what else can I do to make friends.

[โ€“] CDommunist@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago

I am a god of creativity. Raw creativity (I made peanut butter chocolate cups while high)

[โ€“] SterlingPooper@hexbear.net 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

exevery time my ex posts an accomplishment I start to want to experience the second to last episode of each season of Bojack Horseman (complete and utter crashout, existential hallucinations, often a musical number, etc)

she won the breakup. all my exes won by virtue of leaving i guess

idk everyone is prettier than me so it doesn't matter. I keep forgetting to eat lunch and dinner so it's laaaaaaate and I need to eat. Maybe I'll be prettier if I don't eat though. I won't feel less sick tho idk

anyway, the point of this is that my ex is prettier than me and it makes me feel like I don't exist or shouldn't or whatever. she's probably among the last people I had,like, a one on one conversation with outside of my family. This was 2023 maybe? even then I had stopped talking to people really around 2021

she's also probably the only person I've ever talked in person about sexuality with. not even since starting to come out, honestly. I don't know when or where people are talking about these things.

Sometimes I wish she wanted to talk to me. I feel like I could at least try to explain things right. At least explain things right. Then she can kick me to the curb like everyone else.

Idk, might not keep this one up. Then again, I delete all my crashout posts. If you get annoyed by that, try leaving a response. I tend to assume nobody reads. I no longer understand this website. That is all.

spoiler this became a tangent actually When i mean people talk about things i mean like, "oh I know that's her color" or "well she always does this so it must mean that" sorry but just the sphere of connectivity where you're always talking to someone who's always talking to someone and you know this and that about them and you all do this for that oerson because it'stheir favorite or you all know this insids joke, it fascinates me and, like, I want to be an equal participant. I want to be in a network where I consider and am considered.

Am I making the neurotypicals uncomfortable with this one? Like, I'm hyperaware of the frequency we talk and the depth of our conversations, it's a bit like a sound wave. It's possible that I don't perceive a conversation to be particularly negative or stressful because these topics weigh heavily on me and therefore are pretty commonplace, but idk. I'm often just grateful that anyone said anything at all. It's that bad. :::

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[โ€“] yewler@hexbear.net 5 points 1 week ago

I've been reading this book on boolean rings and the pages are mostly numbered the way you'd expect except there are pages 2a, 2b, and 2c, followed by 3, 4, 5, etc. There's also some 2 pages in the 60 range I think that has an a and a b page, and maybe more that i didn't catch. I'm trying to figure out why the hell it's like this.

[โ€“] Mousy@hexbear.net 5 points 1 week ago

I'm going to fujo all over the place.

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