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[–] 5paceThunder@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 hour ago

I notice American's habitually cannot mind their own business.

[–] SirSamuel@lemmy.world 22 points 20 hours ago (4 children)

Not the weirdest, but I didn't realize this until it was pointed out.

The fascination with work, and how one's employment or career is tied to personal identity. It's a basic conversation starter, "What do you do for work?" Not "What do you enjoy doing?" or "Do you have any hobbies?" or "Where do you go to relax?" Nope.

What to you do for work.

It's a weird question that is tied up in judgement and classism. And it's so normal here

[–] Rekorse@sh.itjust.works 7 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Trevor Noah has a section about this in a recent standup. Something likei if you ask a European what they do they answer with hobbies, americans answer with their job title.

[–] Kira@lemmy.today 3 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Just my experience from germany but when people ask what you do, you usually say what Job you have and where the Company is.

[–] Rekorse@sh.itjust.works 1 points 13 hours ago

Germany might be more like america then Europe in that case.

[–] HugeNerd@lemmy.ca 8 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Why are you typing comments when you should be earning money for your boss?

[–] SirSamuel@lemmy.world 2 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

My boss is a real asshole. I can't stand him and he doesn't pay me enough.

I'm self-employed

[–] HugeNerd@lemmy.ca 4 points 18 hours ago

Have you tried sleeping with him for a raise?

[–] Zink@programming.dev 3 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

Good god, yes. This is something I had to break myself from. It is so insidious and pervasive in our culture that I don’t think most of us realize it’s even a thing.

I’ve been to a lot of outdoor birthday parties this summer, and there are so many boring dads who I will hear strike up a conversation about what’s going on at work. I usually make sure to wander in the opposite direction.

And I like my job! But the “talk about work” is usually less about interesting projects or creations and more about what has been going on with that individual’s status. Like yeah Kevin I want you to do well at work and enjoy it, but if it’s all the same to you I’m going to go get chased by kids with squirt guns instead of pretending I care about how your manager is impressed by your team’s metrics.

[–] SirSamuel@lemmy.world 2 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (1 children)

It is so insidious and pervasive in our culture

AmErIcAnS DoN't hAvE A CuLtUrE

lol j/k

Yeah pervasive is right. I'd rather talk about the campaign I'm running and what my players did in our last game, but it's taken a lot of retraining my brain to allow myself to talk about what is fun instead of what I'm "supposed" to do.

[–] Zink@programming.dev 2 points 14 hours ago

‘allow myself to [do things good for me] instead of what I’m “supposed” to do’ is like a full half of what it took to figure out how to try to enjoy life.

[–] gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (1 children)

but if it’s all the same to you I’m going to go get chased by kids with squirt guns instead of pretending I care about how your manager is impressed by your team’s metrics.

kids sure know how to have fun. we have a lot to learn from them

[–] Zink@programming.dev 2 points 15 hours ago

More true than most realize.

After getting through a lot of shit over the past several years, and having a very good & healthy summer, I am convinced that so many of our ills (metal especially) are from this mistaken assumption that more virtual and more high tech and more consumption are positives for our health rather than negatives.

Like I said, I like my job. I have no problem explaining it to anybody who asks. But the funny thing is, nobody asks, lol. A lot times per year I get the “what do you do” question, but then they’re satisfied with that answer. Many people just volunteer their stories because they think they’re supposed (just learned behavior) to or they’re conditioned to brag about work to feel good & valid.

But despite my decent job (software for embedded linux systems — totally on brand for Lemmy!) the absolute best time I’ve spent this summer has been getting wet and muddy in the back yard. Literally.

By turning my hyperfocus and my time and some of my budget towards a big hobby project (upgrading my koi pond) I have set myself up with an activity that gives me:

  • Something good to look forward to
  • Results to enjoy
  • Fresh air
  • Physical exercise, a lot, including lots of lifting
  • Lots of meditative time, even though I physically look very busy
  • Exercising my instinct/desire/need to create things
  • Learning new interesting things that are relevant to the real world but outside my normal area of study/work. In high school I took a hard turn away from chemistry and towards physics. Now I am all about the nitrogen cycle, organic chemistry, oxidation/reduction potential, microorganisms, and so on, in my own way.
  • Opportunity to hang out with my kid and a bunch of our pets with room to run.
[–] r0ertel@lemmy.world 4 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

I've found this only to be true in white collar professions. Hanging out with blue collar people, your job rarely comes up, but it's one of the first questions with white collar people.

[–] Revan343@lemmy.ca 3 points 17 hours ago

It's definitely true with blue collar workers in Alberta, or at least it was when I still socialized (guess when I stopped)

[–] SirSamuel@lemmy.world 3 points 18 hours ago

I grew up blue collar and am still a tradesman. I technically live in the Midwest, but lots of Appalachian people. Of course my social circles include a vast swathe of socio-economic levels so you might still be right.

I'll have to watch closer to see if there's a pattern

I'd say your definitely correct when it comes to people with "low skill" or high turnover type jobs. If they work at dollar general or McDicks they don't talk about work much. Also, there's no such thing as a low skill job, and we all know who was essential and who could stay home for a few months

[–] ShaggySnacks@lemmy.myserv.one 15 points 20 hours ago (4 children)

Flags. Americans are obsessed with the American flag.

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[–] dellish@lemmy.world 18 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

The apparent obsession with money. Some people claim to be religious but it's clear the Almighty Dollar is their God. I know we make jokes about needing a "profit motive", but there is a grounding in reality. It's truly bizarre, from an outside perspective, just what lengths and depths people will sink to in order to increase profit. I'm not saying this is an American Only thing, but it's VERY apparent in the USA just how far people will go.

[–] turtlesareneat@discuss.online 8 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

I stopped talking politics with my FIL when I realized money was his singular driving force. He really believes, and IDK where he got this, that capitalism is itself a perfect system, and that any regulation on it breaks the system. Basically laissez faire libertarianism, wrapped in a flag and wearing a cross. Considering it's a well understood concept, in the rest of the world (and US history) that capitalism requires regulation to work safely, it's maddening to argue anything when we can't agree on basics.

All people with money = inherently good. All brown people = inherently bad. This is the driving socioeconomic philosophy among conservatives.

[–] smayonak@lemmy.world 3 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I started listening to AM radio and Fox News (their stream) to understand them. These people arent even the worst strain of propaganda consumer. But they get it from one of the two schools of austrian economics.

But even morally bankrupt people still believe in the truth. Like no matter how capitalist someone is, the Epstein connection to Trump is not going away. The money itself is not proof that someone doesn't diddle children

[–] MisterOwl@lemmy.world 2 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Maybe, but to them the money makes it okay that Trump diddled children.

Morally bankrupt people will believe in whatever "truth" best serves their interests.

[–] smayonak@lemmy.world 1 points 15 hours ago

It depends on whether they hear about the abuse from their in-person social networks. the propaganda networks will never cover what trump has been doing to children

While there are right wing cults that will accept pedophiles as their leaders, for the majority of those who watch propaganda channels, child rape is the only crime they won't abide. It goes back to their foundational beliefs on abortion.

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[–] voodooattack@lemmy.world 3 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (1 children)

For me, it’s the American belief that their laws apply in other sovereign countries. Calling Julian Assange a traitor when he’s Australian and never held American citizenship for example. Demanding his extradition and strong-arming other countries when he’s not beholden to American laws nor constitution as a non-citizen, and believing that it’s their right to do so.

And that’s from speaking with countless American who believe that this is totally justified and above-board.

[–] radiofreebc@lemmy.world 5 points 18 hours ago

American exceptionalism, especially lately.

[–] But_my_mom_says_im_cool@lemmy.world 8 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Mine is that every 20 years or so, America picks a country or region to decimate, colonize, pillage and take over. They treat the people in that country like refuse. Then 20 years later they move on to the next country. Throughout all this they moralize to you and police the world and try to tell other countries to stop their wars, while they enjoy the benefits of their own invasions.

[–] Rekorse@sh.itjust.works 3 points 18 hours ago

We have a quota in america for weapons manufacturing. If noone needs weapons then make a new conflict. Its not super complicated but it is absurdly morally bankrupt.

[–] GladiusB@lemmy.world 7 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

That we dont want to be trailer trash, but a good 95 percent of us are.

[–] SirSamuel@lemmy.world 2 points 13 hours ago

Excuse you

I'm a double-wide recyclable

[–] Dr_Box@lemmy.world 17 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (7 children)

Where I live almost everyone assumes you are a right wing Christian. They don't even take into consideration that you're not and if they figure out you aren't they stop talking to you in most cases. I've never had anyone straight up call me an idiot but I've had good friends freeze up when they found out and then start avoiding me afterwards. You get looked at like a lizard in human skin.

To add to this, I've heard the talk that gets passed around before they found out that I wasnt. If you are a woman they will straught up call you a witch

[–] andros_rex@lemmy.world 10 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

I’m a passing trans guy, and where I live is like this.

It’s just fucked walking around and know that if they knew, I would essentially lose all humanity to them. It happened with my divorce lawyer, it happens with doctors. I’m like an alien hiding in the place I was born.

[–] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 4 points 21 hours ago (2 children)

I’m like an alien hiding in the place I was born.

That's so messed up. As a southerner: sorry. I would not, and I have a lot of family that wouldn't either, though TBH they left Mississippi...

[–] Genius@lemmy.zip 3 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

You're not a southerner, quit lying. You're from the northern hemisphere. Poser.

[–] Rekorse@sh.itjust.works 2 points 18 hours ago

I'm from the south-north-north-eastern USA!

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[–] Zetta@mander.xyz 5 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (1 children)

Christianity (and all religions imo) are a fucking stain on humanity, they bring so much more harm than good upon us.

[–] myrrh@ttrpg.network 3 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago)

...christians are so overwhelmingly evil that i constantly have to stop and remind myself that some tiny minority of all the crosses and flags i see brandished about may actually be fostered in good faith, lest i judge too soon...

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[–] IndustryStandard@lemmy.world 3 points 17 hours ago

Flag heilling

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 3 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

We're weird about foreskins for one

[–] Bloomcole@lemmy.world 1 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

That's bcs you're all very gullible to marketing/disease mongering in your hyper-consumerist 'society'.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 1 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

I really don't see how hyper-consumerism has anything to do with our cultural bias against foreskin that comes from our history of sexual prudishness.

[–] Bloomcole@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

It's an astroturfed topic, sold as desirable for esthetic reasons or as a BS health issue.
Only a hyper-consumerist society would promote unnecessary medical procedures.
And only gullible consumers would buy that.
Sexual prudishness is definitely there in your backward country but that can exist with or whitout foreskins.
Not the reason.

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[–] Smoogs@lemmy.world 5 points 21 hours ago

And then get weirdly surprised and entitled about it when someone does do something about it.

[–] Bloomcole@lemmy.world 4 points 20 hours ago (1 children)
[–] SLVRDRGN@lemmy.world 3 points 19 hours ago

They do have culture: it's poor taste.

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