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[–] gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 36 points 11 hours ago

The rise in gay people since then reminds me of this diagram:

[–] ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 81 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

Are you kidding? .... it was the great old days for Straight White Christian Men ... they were free to be completely racist aholes, treat women like slaves, have as many children as they wanted and not take care of any of them, have the world at their feet, make a ton of money just for being who they were and they were accountable to no one.

The reason why the past was so great for a small segment of society was that it was so shitty for 99% of rest of the world

[–] chiliedogg@lemmy.world 35 points 12 hours ago (4 children)

I'm a white Christian man, and that sounds awful.

I don't understand how people can want to live in that world.

[–] teamevil@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago

They're terrible people and racist....

[–] Xoriff@lemmy.world 34 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

It's easy if you don't know how shitty the other 90% have it. That's the thing about privilege. The folks who have it assume that everybody has it like they do (i.e. that privilege isn't really a thing, everybody has equal opportunity, racism is dead, etc).

[–] Signtist@bookwyr.me 15 points 11 hours ago

I dunno, I grew up with the "there are kids starving in Africa" spiel and other such lectures. For my family, it was more like the idea that "lesser" parts of the world had problems because they were "lesser," and if anyone is suffering in America it's because they brought that "lesser" mindset with them from elsewhere.

[–] Soup@lemmy.world 5 points 12 hours ago

Different guy here but I get it. That sounds truly heinous. There have plenty of “socially accepted” things that I just cannot get behind because it’s obviously wrong. Like, it doesn’t take a genius to figure out that maybe enslaving human beings, even when your society doesn’t fully count them as such, or hitting your wife is bad.

[–] Lucky_777@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

Look what MAGA did, they pushed the narrative that the white man is getting pushed out of society. Even though the United States is mostly White Christians. They just believed what these bitches told them, didn't bother to look at facts.

That's the real crime.

[–] Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.ca 0 points 10 hours ago

I'm guessing you either aren't American or you aren't and Evangelical Christian.

[–] BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 6 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Straight White Christian Men

Straight White "Christian" Men*

[–] explodicle@sh.itjust.works 2 points 8 hours ago

Straight White Christian Men

Straight White "Christian" Men*

Straight White

--> Christian <--

Men

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 24 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (4 children)
  • Boomer: I miss being young

  • GenX: I miss being young

  • Millennial: I miss being young

  • GenZ / Alpha: I was told young people had more money 20 years ago and I wish I had more money

[–] viral.vegabond@piefed.social 3 points 7 hours ago

Don't lump us in with boomers. That's just bad manners.

[–] Bunbury@feddit.nl 2 points 6 hours ago

Millennial here. I don’t miss being young at all. Sure my body is aging, but it doesn’t make up for how much better I’m doing mentally and emotionally. Also I’m grateful every day that I’m personally sort of financially ok, unlike a lot of our generation and the ones after. Helps being childfree though, because having children would be extremely expensive.

[–] latenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 12 hours ago

As a Millenial, I can 100% say that I do not miss being young. Granted, the busted lumbar region and cranky guts aren't fun, but the familiarity with my own body and the gained cognitive complexity are worth a helluva lot more to me.

I do miss those contexts and how they made me feel, I miss seeing my friends carefree and jovial, and I miss drum and bass and punk gigs. But I was a moron back then, and the shit I did to myself, I wouldn't wish on anyone else.

No, there is one thing: I miss not needing as much sleep as I do now.

[–] phdepressed@sh.itjust.works 2 points 7 hours ago

There are a lot of physical things I miss from being young, eyesight, faster recovery from injury and illness, etc. I didn't have money, I had unmanaged depression, I lacked a lot of self esteem. However, I had more friends(or at least acquaintances), more hope in people, much better physical fitness, and in hindsight a lot of my worries weren't that serious.

Aging and youth are both mixed bags. But I'll take being older without a doubt. -A younger millennial

[–] merc@sh.itjust.works 13 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

On the other hand:

  • Many of the pro-worker policies from the New Deal are still in place, and my union is strong
  • The owner of that factory over there is in the 90% tax bracket, isn't it great how he's paying society back for his good fortune?
  • Every other major economic power in the world was just absolutely flattened in a war, and our country wasn't touched
  • Because our country was relatively safe during the war, the best and brightest migrated here, and we're now benefiting from their ideas and inventions
[–] Sandouq_Dyatha@lemmy.ml 6 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

On the other other hand: segregation was still a thing

[–] merc@sh.itjust.works 1 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

Yup, the 1950s was only better for white people, but there's a reason that white people look back on it with fondness.

But, I'd guess that even for black people it was better than the 1930s. When the economy shinks, they're the first to lose jobs. When it grows they're the last to get them. In the 1950s things were booming so my guess is that black unemployment was low. Still, for working class white males the 1950s may have been a peak, for most other people things have just been getting better every year since then.

Imagine how good it could be if everyone got some of the things working class whites got in the 1950s: strong unions, good labour protections, high tax rates on the ultra rich, etc.

[–] danc4498@lemmy.world 29 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

I’ve never seen a more spot on meme. Though the “can’t get through the day without a shit ton of drugs” one has probably never changed.

[–] Hideakikarate@sh.itjust.works 19 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

Who knows, maybe polio will have a resurgence. It'll go nicely with the measles surge.

[–] Little8Lost@lemmy.world 10 points 12 hours ago

and the usa got a deadly plague death (last one was 2007)

[–] InternetCitizen2@lemmy.world 6 points 12 hours ago

One of the few things becoming great again in america these days.

[–] Soup@lemmy.world 11 points 12 hours ago

That’s the modern adult’s coffee addiction. “Don’t talk to me until I’ve had my stimulant” should be getting us to ask why our work hours force so many of us to need get jacked up on caffeine just survive the morning.

[–] TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 35 points 13 hours ago

"I sent a postcard to my gram gram from the lynching I went to this weekend"

[–] Etterra@discuss.online 13 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Wine and Valium were a housewife's best friends back then.

[–] Karjalan@lemmy.world 5 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Don't forget the face massager

[–] Lucky_777@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago
[–] DelgadoSlims@hexbear.net 5 points 9 hours ago

So we're already back?

[–] ShimmeringKoi@hexbear.net 13 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

Tfw you were born too late to get blown up in Korea

kitty-cri-texas

[–] Palacegalleryratio@hexbear.net 10 points 13 hours ago (3 children)

I mean alot of male conservatives would unironically like these things back. (well maybe except the polio and the drugs I guess?)

[–] TheWolfOfSouthEnd@lemmygrad.ml 11 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I would say the drugs is a class thing…drugs are classy if youre rich, trashy if you’re poor.

I’m not USAian, but still.

[–] jollyrogue@lemmy.ml 5 points 11 hours ago

This true. Drugs are another tool to oppress people. The more money someone makes, the few drug tests they take.

It’s been well over a decade since I had to take a drug test for a job.

Are you sure about them not wanting polio to return? Anti-vaxxers are calling for it to happen.

[–] jaybone@lemmy.zip 2 points 10 hours ago

No, you can include polio too. They don’t want the autism shots.

[–] stefenauris@pawb.social 9 points 13 hours ago

Half of this shit hasn't even really changed

[–] hobata@lemmy.ml 9 points 13 hours ago

the good old time, I miss it very much

My picture from the 50s is mom pregnant with No.5 (me), while dad is not in the photo because he ran off to parts unknown with the neighbor. Good times.

[–] Faydaikin@beehaw.org 4 points 12 hours ago

I dunno, man... Cocain in soft-drinks and being able to support a family with house and car on a single income?

And it's not like we're rid of drug addicts, wife beaters or anything else nowadays...

A tough choice for sure.

[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works -3 points 11 hours ago

Maybe not the 50s but the 90s, for certain