I was too sad to mention Friday Rice yesterday
this post was submitted on 05 May 2025
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Heya Everyone, new Mega time and for it, I'm gonna advertise a TTRPG system called Thirsty Sword Lesbians.
A sword duel can end in kissing, a witch can gain her power by helping others find love, and an entire campaign can be built around wandering matchmakers flying from system to system.
Thirsty Sword Lesbians is a roleplaying game for telling queer stories with friends. If you love angsty disaster lesbians with swords, you have come to the right place.
In this book, youβll find:
Flirting, sword-fighting, and zingers in a system designed for both narrative drama and player safety.
An innovative take on the Powered by the Apocalypse family of games.
Nine character types, each focusing on a particular emotional conflict: Beast, Chosen, Devoted, Infamous, Nature Witch, Scoundrel, Seeker, Spooky Witch, and Trickster.
Guidance and support for running the game, including how to make appealing adversaries, set the tone, pace the game, and structure play.
Tools to create your own settings and stories, alongside a dozen pre-written options including the cyberpunk Neon City 2099, steamfunk poets battling oppression as Les Violettes Dangereuses, laser swords and intrigue in the Starcross Galaxy, and more.
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Strategies to adapt any setting where swords cross and hearts race for Thirsty Sword Lesbians.
Here's a link to their website, I did copy everything over directly from it because I put off writing the Mega this week. I was drawing a blank on what I wanted to talk about. 
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genuinely shocked at how great my ass looks from HRT. holy shit, was there always this much cake back there or did all the E just move everything straight to my ass ASAP? either way I'm still genuinely a bit shocked looking at it and I know damn well it's only getting thicker from here
like wtf, i've been losing a ton of weight recently, imagine how much 
I'll have when I cycle back up
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I have also been surprised how fast my ass got phat. I gained a bit of weight over the past couple weeks (like 5-10 lbs) and now my boy jeans that fit fine just a month ago no longer fit properly.
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Every time I think about starting hrt I cry and I don't even know why or what emotions are there and idk how to move past it. Its not a happy cry. Its a cry that makes me want to not do it. Maybe it is just fear. But I don't know. Was just thinking about it and cried I guess. Back to not thinking.
Even if it's something you really, really want, it's no small thing to change your sex hormone like that
it's okay to have strong emotions towards it
for what it's worth, it's probably going to be one of the best things you'll ever do for yourself
and that's a lot to take in 
Tired of feeling tired
Just worn out in general
feels supreme to think of myself as a trans girl engineer even though I'm still mostly closeted and technically not an engineer since I'm unemployed atm lol
technically not an engineer since I'm unemployed atm lol
being unemployed doesnt make you any less an engineer
aww, thanx π₯Ί I quit my job a couple months ago and recently bought an ESP32 dev board with a fuckload of peripherals (the highlight being an LCD with a touch sensor!) but I'm not sure what to make with it yet lol. firmware is/was my specialty, so I'm hoping to do something with it that can go on my resume, but I don't really want to commit to a project that I don't feel personally invested in, since doing that is what caused me to burn out in the first place.
sometimes I feel like my relationship with my mom would be healthier and stronger if it didn't have to exist in the context of my dad π«
Just learned my voice is deeper on call than real life, thought it was the opposite and I at least had a deeper voice irl 
thing is I get ma'am'd and Ms'd a lot on the phone so trying to process this.
Most people assume that pitch is the most important thing for vocal gender, but it's actually one of the least important.
Some women have deep voices, but they clearly sound like women
This is throwing me off had a 
06 secret rings effortpost I was working on that now I'm stuck thinking about this.
sad venting
I'm working on this new bit where instead of sighing and saying I want to die, I sigh and say I dont want to feel like this
so thats something
O shit this is a good idea
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proud of u for doing that 
Having a bad brain day and could really use a hug 
*huggies*
Sorry comrade
I had a dream that someone here (won't say who) got stood up on a date and sad sad and messaged me to play Ace Combat 8 to fill the night instead.
I've never played Ace Combat, so it's crazy to me that 8 is the one being worked on right now.
Got some sleep
Had a weird dream
Tummy hurts still
I was so excited to finally live my life, but now I feel more lost than ever 
*petpetpetpetpets* is gonna be oki 
I donβt know how to enjoy any media anymore.
I canβt watch videos, I canβt play games.
Seeing normal people makes me depressed. 
mood
until we find something to hyperfixate on for 2 days and we remember what joy feels like (for 2 days) and then have to wait 6 months for that to happen again
Unfortunately kinda real :/ wish that was me...
Making (chicken) noodle soup yum yum yum, the "chicken" is pressed and cooked off tofu. I dunno how to represent the stringy side of animal chicken in tofu, it being tougher is the best I got
Mirepoix base, vegetable broth, onion broth base, rotini, tofu, quinoa, little cut in half grape tomato at the end, gonna give some to my mom - she's been sick
Instead of tofu try mitaki (hen of the forest) mushrooms for chicken texture
Agreed! Or king oyster, it's a mushroom that "pulls" like meats and is super freaking tasty
So tired and feel really weak and achy today
Sees human kibble article 
looks inside to see it's just basic meal prep 
here I thought the doggirls would finally won one 
yall gonna have to get your bachelorette chow elsewhere
dry cereal:
Is it corny to get a shoulder bag with flowers the colors of the trans flag
Only if theyβre cornflowers
hhfgha nuuu thats so cool waaa giv
+1 on that being cute
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My current favorite dystopian sci fi comedy show is watching Star Amerasu
deadnaming, sort of?
so I finished my voice training course, and they sent me like a little "graduation certificate" which is cute and whatever... but they got my name wrong on it, they put the incorrect last name. So now I'm sitting here anxious trying to not feel like a troublesome asshole or whatever for being like "heey, can you give me one with my actual correct name on it?" 
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I literally got an email back within 10 minutes being like "yeah of course, we'll send a new one sorry about that," why's my brain gotta make me worry about this shit so much 
Ahh I get that though. It always feels so awkward asking for anything more (even if it's someone else's fault π)
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