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Warning: Grapefruit can interact with drugs, such as decreasing the effectiveness of estradiol, making Oxycodone last longer, increasing blood levels when on Viagra, and much more.

Grapefruit inhibits multiple enzymes in the small intestine, most notably CYP3A4. CYP3A4 is involved in the breaking down of a lot of drugs, so when it's inhibited Oxycodone becomes inactive slower, and estradiol won't break down all the way into estrogen. Drugs that are affected by grapefruit will often have warnings on their packaging

Personally, I like putting just a little bit of salt on my grapefruit, to counteract the bitter flavor. Dumping sugar on it doesn't help. Grapefruits are about half as sour as lemons, since they have half the citric acid content.

Grapefruits were accidentally created as a cross between the sweet orange and the pomelo, in Barbados. Those fruits originate from Asia, but were brought to the Caribbean in the 17th century. Since it's parent fruits are native to Asia, it grows well in Asia too.

some-controversy and peekaboo (China and Vietnam) are the two largest producers of Grapefruits, producing collectively 6.3 million tons out of the 9.8 million tons of worldwide production.

The painting was made by Robert Papp, who has a website here: https://robertpapp.com/. I don't really know anything about the guy.

The lemon things with all of the recipes was really cool, but to be honest I just like grapefruit raw, cut in half and ate with a spoon.


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[–] buh@hexbear.net 7 points 5 months ago (1 children)

the lyrics for youtopia by bmth feel so eggy, even though I'm sure it wasn't meant that way

It's like I walked into a dream

And stepped out of the coma

full lyricsThere's a place I wanna take you
But I'm not quite there myself yet
(Doo-doo-doo-doo-doo)
I'm getting better, but there's still days
Where I wish that I was someone else
But I know

There is a home, somewhere
Beyond my bones
And I'm just too terrified
To dive inside

Soul like a cemetery
Hard to ignore, we're sick to the core
A world's been buried
Where love is the law, a youtopia
(Scream)

Golden raspberry
For the performance in your head
(Doo-doo-doo-doo-doo)
Stop pushing daisies
No one wants flowers when they're dead

Soul like a cemetery
Hard to ignore, we're sick to the core
A world's been buried
Where love is the law, a youtopia

(There is a home)
There is a home, ah
(Beyond our bones)
Beyond our bones
Let's connect to the divine
It's okay to cry, yeah

Soul like a cemetery
Hard to ignore, we're sick to the core
A world's been buried
Where love is the law

A youtopia (there's a place I wanna take you)
A youtopia (there's a place I wanna take you)
A youtopia (there's a place I wanna take you)
Where love is the law, a youtopia

What was it like?
It's like I walked into a dream
And stepped out of the coma

[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 7 points 5 months ago

feel this way about a few smashing pumpkins songs

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 5 months ago

Stressed myself out for hours trying to get something done, didn't even get through it, and now my mood is ruined. Can't cry, feel like fighting someone. I'm so pissed.

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 7 points 5 months ago

Falling asleep with a piece of iron pressed to my skin as exposure therapy, soon I'll overcome one of my weaknesses and be unstoppable greensicko-laser

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 7 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

I rewatched Legally Blonde last night and I was surprised how well it holds up. Especially how unproblematic it is.

There's bi-erasure with the pool guy (but they had only just invented bisexuals in the 90s so it might have not have reached them).

The autistic guy is a bit rough but displayed as morally good and helps Elle in the last act.

The character of Enid Wexler is interesting because it feels like she's mean spirited in intent but just comes off as cool af in modern context.

She's a black Jewish lesbian with a PhD in women's studies (with an emphasis on combat) who organised a lesbian march against drunk driving. That feels like a conservative joke but none of that is bad. In fact it's cool.

Even the scene where she has cornered the cishet white Warner (who the film agrees sucks), and is telling him the university should change the name of "semester" to "ovester" could be fixed with a wink to show she's yanking his chain.

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 7 points 5 months ago

I think my physical therapist clocked me? Like she's really cool and it was kind of a gentle hint type thing of her just being really genuine and curious since we were already really friendly but hmmm thonk-trans

I don't know whether not saying anything and enduring misgendering or outing myself and it being awkward maybe would be worse

Yearly apartment inspections coming up in a couple days, so I get to spend the next 48 hours anxiously planning what things I'm gonna hide and where from the random dude who's gonna be poking around my home looking for an excuse to kick me out lt-dbyf-dubois

[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 6 points 5 months ago (3 children)

I was looking into a new outfit, red leather with black spikes, but when searching for pieces I came across a "Descendants 4: Rise of Red" jacket and it destroyed me. I don't think I can recover from being called out as a poser like this.

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[–] PeeNutButtHer@hexbear.net 6 points 5 months ago (1 children)

(CW: Suicide mention)God being unemployable makes me want to fucking kill myself. I can't seem to get another job and even if did I couldn't hold it down for more than a couple of months. Got let go from my last one because I wasn't productive enough but I was really trying my absolute hardest, I really just work noticeably slower than most people. I can't do the work other people can, I can't do the hours other people can

I need a lot of money if I'm ever to be happy. FFS is expensive, SRS is expensive, and I don't think I want to live if I can't get those at some point in my life

I just got to really hope I can find somewhere that'll put up with me and scrape enough money together for surgery. But even then It'll be years, maybe decades, till I'm okay with existing in this body

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 6 points 5 months ago

meow-hug

I'm in a similar spot

Can't work while I recover from surgery and my resumΓ© and qualifications are lacking on top of always having Gender quietly being an issue for interviews

"sorry, we're just not sure you're a good fit for us" etc

Good ol' "we're technically not discriminating" professional transphobia

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 6 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Wanting to be held but there is no one to hold niko-cri I am slowly stealing all the blankets in the house tho..

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