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[–] PeeNutButtHer@hexbear.net 4 points 1 week ago (4 children)

(CW: Weight loss) This is a vent, not asking for advice, don’t give me adviceGod dammit why does weight shit have to be so one sided. Been trying to lose weight over this past two weeks, starting at 200.2 lbs I got down to 190.5 by only eating 1 meal a day, I was a little cranky at first but I’ve gotten into the rhythm and it was going great. Yesterday I made fried rice and had a bowl of it, later in the day I got high and decided to splurge a little and had a small portion of leftovers in addition to what I already had. Well today I went up 3 lbs because of that slip up.

I try and I try and lose only like a pound or less a day and then one slip up and boom there goes multiple days worth of progress.

I feel like I’m fighting the world with everything I do. Trying to eat less, trying to smoke less, trying to take better care of myself. Days to weeks of progress can be destroyed in a single instance, it’s so one sided and bullshit. Still very determined to lose weight though, even if this fuck up has frustrated me to no end

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Even though I'm taking estrogen (and spironolactone) I'm still taking finasteride. I think just it's neat. I'm surprised it doesn't get used as much in gender affirming care.

Obviously it's can't be a sole anti-androgen as it only blocks DHT, but like women trans and cis are meant to have some testosterone if only for energy, libido etc. I think it makes sense to have the finasteride there to sweep in and block the DHT part that only have negative effects (hair loss on scalp, increased facial and body hair, prostate enlargement). It's actually prescribed to cis women who are losing hair or are hirsute, a demographic with a lot in common with some trans women.

The major side "negative" effects are reversible (1:100) and irreversible erectile dysfunction (1:10,000) which is a YMMV and breast growth vivian-shrug

I pay 20 AUD for 30x5mg tablets, that I quarter, meaning I have 4 months supply at once and it costs me 5 dollar bucks a month.

Also seems like it has relevance for Trans Men who don't want hair loss from testosterone. IDK.

[–] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago

my hair was shit for a year or two even after spiro and estradiol until I started fina, still on it and tbh too scared to stop

[–] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Is there any particular reason you're taking fin instead of duta?

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

garbageToo afraid to do anything. Very sad day today. I don't know if its because I'm sick or what but I haven't cried like this in a while.

It feels like I'm just broken.

I don't even have a reason to be broken. My parents are kinda kooky and could have done better- both with having better opinions and with my autism. But that shouldn't be enough to ruin me like this. Obviously I'm dysphoric but again- is it really that bad to make me like this. Hopefulyl I can get E and cross that off.

spoiler self harm Relapsed recently. Want to do it again. I don't even have a reason right now other then being sad. stupid fucking reason. always a stupid fucking reason though.

can it please just stop. it hurts so bad today.

how do i get unbroken

self hate/unhinged, genuinely unwell and venting I guessPeople have come back from way worse. Do you know why? Because they aren't stupid, removed pieces of shit. They tried. They cared. APpparently I dont'. I dont know what's wrong with me. why am I not better.

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

meow-hug

self talk stuffI'm bad about that too, but you're not stupid or whatever removed was there. You're dealing with a really hard situation. Feeling shitty and dealing with all the mental shit that comes with it can prevent you from feeling capable of caring or trying, but reflecting on that like you are says to me that you want to get better, and that's important. At my lowest, I just shut down entirely and couldn't have written anything like that or even cared about trying to improve and just wallowed in apathy and anhedonia and alcoholism. You might not feel capable of being better now, but I know you want to bad enough that you will once you're able to. I think you're a sweet and funny and kind woman and I hope you can be kinder to yourself.

I know I didn't respond in uh- reasonable amount of time at all but this helped me last night, ty LocalOaf cat-trans

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Oh, I have you booked for... 1 hour of unrestrained happiness and feelings of self worth. Alright, you may start

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[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago

That "feel like you didn't really accomplish anything today and are going to bed lonely and feeling unaccomplished" kinda sad

lea-cry

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I find it kind of wild that in the Altered Carbon books it basically says "Liberal democracy will inevitably become intrenched fascism to the point where people forget the concept of infranchisement, while unrestrained capitalism in the periphery will make a new feudalism that is hell on earth for the living, the only solution is an eternal peoples wars through the science of space Maoism" and "changing your body and gender like it's a piece of clothing is cool and good".

Then the author is a huge centrist UK labor supporter and a massive TERF (literally friends with Graham Lineham).

[–] nemmybun@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago

pic of 2/3 of my recovery team

[–] RandallThymes@hexbear.net 2 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Hello creature

I got a tingly feeling inside when I started writing this message.

Still figuring myself out so not sure how much I'll post but wanted to say all of you are super inspiring and just reading your comments has helped me out

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago

Taken to saying to myself "I'm eating for two" and lifting my breasts up.

[–] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

So i somehow managed to play Undertale before getting spoilered and

ofc i ended up accidentally murdering Toriel. And i told my emotional support puppygirl about it and she said "you can reset the game, you know? The game remembers these things." So i was in the final corridor, at the savepoint after the flashback to the house in the ruins, and that had gotten me all teary-eyed, so i hit reset and started all over again and all this toriel-handhold brought me even closer to crying and i did everything right and spared her this time and that fucking flower goes "i know you murdered her, you're not the only one who can change reality" and all that and i just broke down. JFC. Even Disco Elysium didn't fuck with me as hard as this.

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[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Used the women's restroom for the first time. It was at a UU church hosting a trans lives festival, so definitely a safe place to do so.

catgirl-happy

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago (2 children)

The first (and only) time I've ever used (or even seen) a gender neutral bathroom was at a UU. It was really nice since I don't feel comfy in either gendered bathroom at this point

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I was in an Oporto the other day. It's an Australian Portuguese restaurant chain (a competitor to Nandos).

It had two bathrooms. One had a pink door with the traditional woman's symbol but with a chickens head. The other had a blue door with a men's symbol with a chicken head.

However both doors were labeled "Unisex Bathroom". Like they'd had money to change the writing but not the rest. Which I though was cool, funny and kind of gender AF.

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[–] shallot@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Vince McMahon face meme that advances one level every time we are given new lemon art

Thank you for your appreciation

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 1 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

My winter girl rot era is over, my summer happy girl era is beginning.

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago

Real! I started running again this week for that reason.

[–] buh@hexbear.net 1 points 2 weeks ago

trans people in chud nightmares: trying to indocrinate children, corrupt society

trans people irl: oranges. lemons

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago (2 children)

WOKE up to my plushies all being warm from my body heat, it's cold this morning but goddamn my body is like a furnace. Only thing different is yesterday went hard (for me) on the rowing machine, if only for my plushies might keep doing that so I can be warm for them

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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago

This girl on The Ultimatum (gay edition) is so annoying

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago

stop right there, scriminal cum

religion/mention of religious traumaNot religious/spiritual whatsoever (hardline (dialectical) materialist), but I'll admit that this Unitarian Universalist hosted fest is the first time that I haven't felt anxious presenting femme around cis people. Got a lot of compliments for my makeup from some kids. It warms my heart to see young people being raised in love and acceptance. Having been raised up evangelical/in right-wing areas, I've never seen that before in person.

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