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[–] inb4_FoundTheVegan@lemmy.world 17 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (1 children)

As a trans person, I'm not the biggest fan of these stickers. I just don't think it will change any minds of transphobes, seems more likely to make them angrier and more prone to ask if a person should be in... "their" bathroom.

It's not my intent to tone police or criticize, everyone should do as they see best. I've seen these irl and it's not like I tear them off, I just think they are more self gratification than activism. But even saying that, in these fucked up times, any trans joy is worthwhile.

[–] RIPandTERROR@sh.itjust.works 5 points 5 hours ago

It also can be a morale boost for myself when I run across them. I feel less alone.

[–] AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 19 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Hello i am cishet but you should put these on politicians' graves that were anti-trans. Also pee on them but thats optional.

[–] BigDanishGuy@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 hours ago

Same! I think the missus might have a problem with me putting it on a t-shirt though

[–] hmmm@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 hours ago

Also pee on them but thats optional

Hey, that is a kink for some people.

[–] knightmare1147@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago

Damn I love this. Gimme some of those stickers.

Literally any bathroom in a red state.

[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 5 points 1 day ago

In the bathrooms of any red state or republican-leaning town.

[–] Frozzie@lemmy.world 53 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] BigDanishGuy@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 hours ago

I don't think that you can get the clue to stick to that amount of urea

[–] TheGingerNut@lemmy.blahaj.zone 43 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Above urinals. To confuse the enemy

[–] Ziglin@lemmy.world 2 points 22 hours ago

I mean the stand to pee things exist for a reason but I think this might be the wrong community for those. So uh how about the bottom of toilet seats?

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

Kitchen sink.

[–] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 28 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That seems like it would make a great t-shirt.

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[–] Duke_Nukem_1990@feddit.org 25 points 1 day ago

On c🤮bertrucks

[–] jennraeross@lemmy.world 24 points 1 day ago

Confederate memorials

[–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 17 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] tradysticky@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago
[–] cheeseandkrakens@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I like to be sneaky. I dont want staff removing them. So I usually do the underside of the toilet seat (for mens room or unisex bathrooms), or the side of the toilet roll holder that faces the toilet.

[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago

Get a superglue bottle with a brush and coat the surface in that before putting the sticker on it. It'll make it a pain to remove and basically impossible without surface damage.

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If you don't want staff removing them then wheatpaste. It is a lot harder to remove things that were wheatpasted. 😉

[–] remotelove@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Would warm water not work?

[–] Sasha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 day ago

I once spent an entire evening removing nazi homophobic posters from my uni campus, wheat paste fucking sucks to get off even with water. I had a spray bottle with me and for most of them I had to just scratch off the worst parts and leave them up.

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Unsure, you might know more than us.

[–] remotelove@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Wheatpaste is just starches. It just seems logical that it would still be water soluble, is all. I personally have never tried to remove wheatpaste off of anything and dried starches can be a pain to deal with. (Clothes are an exception: you just throw the thing in the wash and be done with it.)

(Of all things I have typed on the internets, I never would have guessed a preliminary analysis on wheatpaste would be one of them. Lulz.)

[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Superglue is way worse than wheatpaste, if wheatpaste is hard to remove, superglue is impossible without causing extensive surface damage, especially on plastic surfaces.

[–] remotelove@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago

Yeah, isopropyl or acetone may not play nice with plastics. Not only does it take time to dissolve superglue with IPA or acetone, you risk melting the plastic. (Acetone and ABS plastic are especially incompatible. Just the vapor will turn ABS into goo.)

[–] stoly@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

I may or may not be willing to deface every bathroom everywhere it’s these.

[–] tradysticky@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] Snapz@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Why not sell these at cost? Majority of your orders are likely able to fit in an envelope with a stamp?