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[–] shortrounddev@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Idk what you're talking about most Americans are mad at the state of out country

[–] deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz 3 points 3 days ago

Bread and circuses.

Though that's a little antiquated, so now it's "high fructose corn syrup and superbowl".

[–] dontbelasagne@lemmy.world 19 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Brainwashing from the moment they were born

[–] mrcleanup@lemmy.world 10 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I'm mad, but what? Once we pull out the guillotines there's no going back, so right now I'm hoping that checks and balances thing starts to kick in soon.

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Republicans have majority control over the media. They don't know what's happening because their news doesn't cover it.

[–] thedeadwalking4242@lemmy.world 12 points 5 days ago (6 children)

The majority aren’t at the point where they are willing to sacrifice everything yet. They have families, homes, food, friends. Currently the administration hasn’t taken away enough from enough people to get it really going. It will be coming though. People just haven’t felt the affects yet

[–] delgato@sh.itjust.works 7 points 5 days ago

As a young man (I’m under 30) with 2 kids I feel stuck like this. A lot of the protesting actions I would have taken are tapered by “I have to be around for my kids”, but at the same time this country is not how I want my kids to be raised in and I don’t know my own red line for this. Suffice to say if I’m thinking about this 3 weeks into Trump’s America, then I hope I will feel compelled to be more active. NYC might be coming to a heat with the Mayor Adam’s BS so I’m keeping my eye out for any manifestations in the city.

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[–] BreadOven@lemmy.world 19 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I'm not even American and I'm mad. Most of what I've heard from Americans is that they're mad.

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 11 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Same. I'm so mad and disappointed in America, but I can't let that override my compassion for its people. This whole thing is so frustrating to watch. Look at how the French do it, Americans! It's time to break some shit.

[–] Tedesche@lemmy.world 7 points 5 days ago (3 children)

You have compassion for us Americans, and that’s nice, but bear in mind we voted for this. As much as the people who voted for Trump may have done so out of desperation, we still made a catastrophically stupid decision. Trump isn’t the problem, he’s a symptom. The problem lies in the American people. We have been squashed by both our government and our corporations. We need a wake-up call, and if that means we need to suffer from our own choices then so be it. Maybe we haven’t suffered enough yet. If we’re so dumb that we vote for a malignant narcissist like Donald Trump, maybe we need to be squashed a bit more. We have the power to take back our country, we just need the will to do it. Maybe that comes from more hardship and regret. Maybe that comes from more suffering.

But maybe not. Maybe I’m wrong. I’m so disappointed with my own countrymen right now, maybe I’m not seeing things clearly. I don’t know. But I know we deserve what we voted for. The world doesn’t, and that’s a tragedy, but maybe America needs to take a hit and the world needs to rely less on us for both America and the world to be better. Again, I don’t know.

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[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 24 points 6 days ago (7 children)

I'm not American, but from what I can see, its mostly:

  • Apathy
  • Not being clued in
  • Beliving nothing can be done
[–] chilicheeselies@lemmy.world 7 points 5 days ago

Not being clued in is a serious problem here. A lot of people dont take in any form of news whatsoever

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[–] Corkyskog@sh.itjust.works 8 points 5 days ago

Because a third of Americans are uninformed, another third is misinformed and thinks the current administration is in line with their goals, the other third is being gaslit by the other 2/3s that this is normal... And for those not buying the gaslighting, they are ignored and still too small of a group to do much.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 11 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I'm pissed off. I don't know what I'm supposed to do about it. If there's a protest near me I'll join it. If I see somebody getting fucked with by a Nazi I'll step in but I have responsibilities and a job and can't really afford to travel. So until shit really kicks off I'm kind of stuck in this state where I can't do anything.

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[–] brygphilomena@lemmy.dbzer0.com 29 points 6 days ago (2 children)

We all are. The left and the right.

We have all been told from different sources who or what to be mad about.

Some were so mad about contrived issues they voted in someone who campaigned on destroying the federal government.

Others are pissed off that that person who was voted in is destroying the federal government.

The outrage machine literally is why the fascist pig is in the Whitehouse in the first place.

What you might be asking is why we aren't rioting in the streets. Just know that some of us are 4 times as far from our countries capital as London is from Berlin. In a blue state, who would I be protesting to? The people who already agree with me?

[–] invertedspear@lemm.ee 14 points 6 days ago

Protests don’t work if the people in power don’t care. One dude with a gun did more to shake up people in power than any recent protest has. Look how Elon wears his kids as human shields now. Protests are to bring awareness, the world is aware. We are now in need of people willing to take action.

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[–] I_Has_A_Hat@lemmy.world 8 points 5 days ago (5 children)

30 years of watching progressive movements flounder and civil action lead to absolutely zero substantial changes has given me a defeatist attitude. What good is getting mad? It's not like it will change anything.

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[–] Yeller_king@reddthat.com 7 points 5 days ago

I dunno, they seem to be mad. It's just most of them are wrong about who they should be mad at and why

[–] wabafee@lemmy.world 8 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

I think internet in general specifically social media. It allows you to vent your frustrations without doing actual damage. It's also easy to disconnect compared to marching to the streets.

I think social media has done tons of damage. It think it brought together a group of people who would have never found each other, because they don't have any decernable skills, and let them spread and consume misinformation at alarming rates.

[–] AlecSadler@sh.itjust.works 29 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Lack of organization. We're many of us individually mad, but there is no organization.

Say what you will but Jan 6th and then some is what we should be doing, but we aren't.

All I'm doing now is hoarding ammunition and periodically buying more guns because I 1000% believe we're going to see war soon.

I'm also donating money to charities, helping people in my community that are struggling, and telling fascists to fuck off.

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[–] MeaanBeaan@lemmy.world 8 points 5 days ago (7 children)

Who tf says we're not mad? We're fucking furious.

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I'm mad as fuck. Get me one (or more) of those traitorous bastards within arm's reach and they'll find out precisely how mad.

[–] Draegur@lemm.ee 19 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Fatigue.

We're too distracted by struggling to survive our small local daily struggles to even SEE the big picture.

If there's a time bomb in the room ticking down before your eyes, yeah that's a big deal. If, in that same room, you're also being attacked by a pack of rabid dogs though, chances are you've stuck a pin in the whole "what about the bomb" thing.

And if there's a sniper outside the room preparing to shoot you without even a moment's notice that you KNOW is there and that you can't even see AS WELL, all you can hope for us that all the moving around you're doing to avoid being dragged down and torn apart by the rabid dogs will throw off their shots.

They have BLINDED US WITH TRAUMA.

Normal people are fighting for their lives on a daily basis JUST contending with their landlords, their bosses, their financial institutions, their utility expenses, their groceries. They don't see the ways in which these challenges are driven by the federal government's policies on a national scale.

[–] InFerNo@lemmy.ml 15 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Was reading r/conservative to see what's on their minds regarding the events of late, and they are in there celebrating.

[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world 16 points 6 days ago (1 children)

r/conservative is a highly curated indoctrination machine. It's purpose is to pull in conservative leaning people and teach them party line. If your on r/conservative you're acquiescing to the group think or you stay silent.

But that's still an answer for you. It's easy to fight back if we're united, but they have a huge contingent of armed absolute morons celebrating the Nazification, rape, and pillaging of the country.

[–] jj4211@lemmy.world 14 points 6 days ago

Bread and circuses

[–] moseschrute@lemmy.world 17 points 6 days ago (4 children)

What makes you think we aren’t mad?

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[–] chilicheeselies@lemmy.world 10 points 5 days ago (3 children)

What makes you think we are not mad?

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[–] mojofrododojo@lemmy.world 11 points 6 days ago

everyone I know is mad. disgusted. ashamed of our country and it's election systems that allow this incompetent clown show to destroy our democracy.

meanwhile joe joe could have had the cia murder trump et al, and probably gotten away with it considering the supreme court's bullshit.

strange thing to wish had happened.

[–] BmeBenji@lemm.ee 22 points 6 days ago (7 children)

I’m mad. I’m very mad. I’m also very tired of watching political movements get shut down by the people who respond with “yes, we need to do better” followed by a handful of performative actions, and absolutely no substantive change.

I believe in a general strike. Wholeheartedly. I believe it would make real change. How the hell do I organize one safely? How do I trust any of the other people online who claim to be organizing them?

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[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 5 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Those of us who are extremely upset about the state of our country are constantly wondering WTF is wrong with the other ones. I think a large part of it is a slow, progressive dumbing down by our growing addiction to entertainment and convenience. We've become a nation of 13-year-olds who think mom is a bitch for making us go to the dentist.

[–] loopedcandle@lemmynsfw.com 19 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Real talk?

Because I'm tired. So absurdly tired. Tired of the stupid and the sensationalism and the faked anger and the real suffering and pain.

Am I mad? Yeah. But unfortunately I'm way more tired.

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[–] Professorozone@lemmy.world 7 points 5 days ago

Gaslighting?

There’s plenty that are mad.

Just that the minority that are happy about it and the billionaires that own all forms of media keep sweeping that fact under the rug. Or they put a question mark at the end of it. Are Americans all that upset about trump? How much damage is trump really doing? And then they softball the response to questions like that with “who really knows what the damage will be? when it’s objective what the results are and the future holds.

[–] Sabata11792@ani.social 7 points 5 days ago

Everyone is mad and everyone can't agree why were mad so now were more mad.

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