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  • 1st panel : spongebob in a stand caption reads "Single trans woman"
  • 2nd panel : a huge crowd gathered around spongebob
  • 3rd panel : spongebob adds a little paper on his table saying "I don't use my penis"
  • 4th panel : the whole crowd left.
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[–] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 7 hours ago

i mean, don't use it how? Specifically putting it inside another person or like.. touching it at all?

because personally as a penis wielder i don't really have a desire to get bummed, but i'd quite like every other way of seeing a dick used.

[–] Stonewyvvern@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

Long time ago Ally McBeal aired an episode where everyone had a problem with a dude dating a trans person (not sure if the nomenclature).

They all had a problem with her having a dick. The dude dating her didn't have a problem with it. But somehow everyone made it into a problem where there wasn't one before.

I just don't understand how or why it was anyone else's business to begin with. Culture social whatever nonsense reason they used to get involved was weak and shallow.

Kinda showed how people will rationalize sticking their nose in where is doesn't belong.

[–] random@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago

I'm a gigahon and way too ugly for any partner, appearently no man wants to date an ugly girl with a dick, that looks like a man

[–] Arkhive@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 2 days ago

I’m in this picture, and not as part of the crowd :/

Have my upvote.

[–] Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 49 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Single trans men just get the 4th panel fml

[–] blindbunny@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 days ago

I dig dating trans men. I get to talk about motorcycles and guns and they usually want to help work on cars or motorcycles with me. Hang out in the woods and shoot rocks and in general do gross dangerous stuff together. For context I'm a cis bi sub

[–] jol@discuss.tchncs.de 20 points 3 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Lots of gay and bi guys are into trans men. What is your experience?

[–] Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 23 points 3 days ago (5 children)

My experience is that gay men want penis and bi men want to bottom. I'm strictly a bottom so that's probably not helping my chances.

[–] jol@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

As a vers guy I prefer a long term partner with a penis, but would hookup with a cute trans guy for sure. The tops I know would date trans guys.

[–] Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Send your tops this way please

[–] jol@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 2 days ago

Haha no. Find your own 🥴

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[–] Zeke@fedia.io 13 points 2 days ago (3 children)

This is why I've personally dropped it. I can't do HRT, bottom surgery is out, political trouble isn't worth it, and I've already been turned down just for using the pronouns he/him. To add, I am in fact a bottom and straight. That little bit of self love doesn't really feel worth it in my case.

[–] Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Valid, I stopped T a week ago after 15 years and I'm playing around with the idea of detransition. At this point I feel I would be happier.

Edit: This is in no way an implication that anyone else should stop HRT or pursue detransition.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 day ago

I'm just a "tomboy" who got fixed and my tits chopped off, nothing to see here...

[–] JokeDeity@lemm.ee 4 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Please don't take offense to this I'm just trying to follow: straight in this context means you're attracted to?

[–] Zeke@fedia.io 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm attracted to men and my type is usually straight so my chances of finding someone who would want me as a trans man is already slim.

[–] fracture@beehaw.org 2 points 1 day ago

felt that brother

[–] DonPiano@feddit.org 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

A man is usually considered straight when they are attracted to women

[–] JokeDeity@lemm.ee 2 points 20 hours ago

And yet they meant the opposite it turns out, good thing I asked.

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 46 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Can I use your penis? I mean, if you're not going to... 🤷🏻‍♂️

[–] millie@beehaw.org 3 points 2 days ago

Honestly I've been too agoraphobic since COVID to even really put in the effort. I have Bumble sitting on my phone with no profile filled out and that's as far as it's gotten.

But like, even the first panel sounds like kind of a boost. 😅

[–] Suprabiscuit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 37 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (21 children)

Wait until you say you don't have one or a libido

[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 34 points 3 days ago (4 children)

Snuggling is better than fucking anyway

[–] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 7 hours ago

to me they're basically the exact same thing, which i believe there's a term for but i can't remember for the life of me

Agreed, I personally only like platonic cuddles :3

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[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 points 3 days ago

Moooood

Like, dude, I'm still down to penetrate you, as long as you don't mind me using a strap on

[–] lolola@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 3 days ago (1 children)

...I'll just have the first and fourth panels please... >_<

I'll just be having you please >.<

[–] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 13 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Never realized chasers wanted to bottom, neat

I mean, isn't that part of the whole thing? They want to get railed without it being gay?

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