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Trans Megathread from January 27th, 2024 to February 2nd, 2024 (lemmygrad.ml)

submitted 8 months ago by Ciel@lemmygrad.ml to c/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns@hexbear.net

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Hiiii!

Today: a short yap about computer hardware:

Damn I love the AM4 socket its so upgradable yay, bought a Ryzen 9 5900X for our old desktop soon to be homelab and so excited for it.

Computers are fun! ~~(and expensive)~~

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[–] tamagotchicowboy@hexbear.net 12 points 8 months ago

CW: Dysphoria been pestering me, also potential harassment hard to say

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The new meds the doc has me on makes me feel all bloated and weird, gained like 5 pounds overnight, almost get a phantom chest flip out in the corner of my mind's eye. Then while I was walking around early today some dude started making some standard pick up people on the street commentary and my dysphoria laden brain goes 'omg I'm so bloated I don't even pass anymore!' rather than a tiny bit more sensible 'people raging against the closet in the dark hours' or 'frat brats starting pranking early'. Hard to say if it was even toward me since there were two other much older guys walking by me and we all sort of looked up like 'wat, who' and joked about it.

[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 12 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

No one has commented on my piercings at work. I think I could walk in there wearing a dress and people would be too polite to say anything to my face. I'm glad that I'm not getting aby mean comments, but the complete silence on the changes so far has kind of been annoying.

Next week: nails in public.

Also, consultation with the medspa for hair removal went well. Going to be a lot cheaper than the cosmetic surgery place. I also got a quote from Milan and I am creeped out by how persistent they are with the sales. It's way too expensive and I don't want to commit to a lifetime package.

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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 12 points 8 months ago (4 children)

I think I want to have a fem voice when I'm talking but keep my baritone singing voice

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[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 12 points 8 months ago

New Mega 😁

[–] Edie@hexbear.net 12 points 8 months ago (5 children)

Dysphoria-pilled bedrottingcore... or something like that

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[–] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 11 points 8 months ago

lovey dovey stuff

spoiler actually it's smut My partner and I went to the sex shop yesterday and got some new toys, including a strap-on harness and new dildo. Unfortunately, my hole is in recovery from bad, scratchy shits catgirl-cry

We still ended up fucking for 3 hours but I wanted it so bad panting Now that we have the strap I'm more motivated to watch my diet and drink a metric ton of water, though. :::

[–] WhyEssEff@hexbear.net 11 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

does faceapp still have the best gender filter or are there better alternatives out there now?

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 11 points 8 months ago (6 children)

can't spell "sonic the hedgehog" without "he hedgehog"

people who headcanon him as transfem owned doggirl-smug

[–] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 11 points 8 months ago

well yeah obviously shadow is the transfem

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[–] Ambii@hexbear.net 11 points 8 months ago (2 children)

oh my gods i did not expect Detransion, Baby to be so unabashedly horny and raw. I read content warnings beforehand but I wasn't expecting this

[–] President_Obama@hexbear.net 11 points 8 months ago (2 children)

My mom read this 🥴

Is it like, not transphobic? Wanna know if it had a good influence on my mom wrt trans ppl

[–] Ambii@hexbear.net 12 points 8 months ago (3 children)

It's pretty good so far; like the other commenter said, Torri Peters is trans herself. This really shows in the text imo as there's too much intimate knowledge in regards to the thought processes and motivations of trans women when it comes to gender relations and relationships.

The CWs are mainly there for how graphic the book can be with violence, sex, and (trans)misogyny but at it's core the book is a romance of sorts.

To me, so far, the book feels like as if I was reading a story that starts after what would be a bittersweet ending to a coming of age story. Like a "What happens next?" to a hypothetical trans romance that left you feeling hollow.

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[–] amy_jmayday@hexbear.net 11 points 8 months ago

Gonna have to remember to ask my therapist if I was able to adequately tonally convey pissed the fuck off while maintaining femme voice doggirl-gloom

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 11 points 8 months ago (2 children)

In the most recent Larian community news post about Baldur's Gate 3:

our Community Team took the next most natural step and joined Tumblr - because if the gang are going to star in a thousand slow-burn romance fics, we might as well be there to see it.

it's like they follow me~

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 11 points 8 months ago

We will always have Friday Rice doggirl-kiss

[–] bolshevikLovelace@hexbear.net 11 points 8 months ago (4 children)

does anyone know what kind of office-appropriate clothes i should buy? work's starting to enforce RTO so i want to look good when i'm arrested for arson

[–] bolshevikLovelace@hexbear.net 12 points 8 months ago

if anyone's interested, here are some of the questions (none of them answered) from our company meeting about this

What if there's no direct benefit of attending the site? e.g. my coworkers are at a different site

literally me (and by the sounds of it, a lot more people working here), hence why i've been allowed to wfh so far

Can you quantify the reduced productivity that you say you're seeing?

they can't quantify shit, in the same meeting they were discussing rising profits ffs

Will there be exceptions for neurodivergent individuals?

maybe, if they've spent hundreds of dollars on a diagnosis (still need to test this myself however)

Covid hasn't gone away, people are still dying from it. What steps will take to make sure the more crowded workspaces are safe?

fuck all. they don't give a shit if their actions cause further deaths if it can save them some money

bonus:

It's not hard to work in the office. We did it prior to covid and 5 days a week!

fuckyoufuckyoufuckyoufuckyou

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[–] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 11 points 8 months ago

Well, the trans support group I was hoping to start attending isn't having a virtual meeting tonight since the subject is first aid (which makes sense for in person demonstrations), but because I still have the sniffles (and it's an hour drive), so I will have to wait until next week. trans-sad

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