shaving, body shame
I'm used to taking care of my arm hair at this point, but my lower body is intimidating.
It's honestly a source of shame, a big reason for not having sex has been hearing people talk about guy's hygiene and "how disGUSTing men are" and not knowing where to start or how to ask.
I know I'm hairy and smelly, and I'm the type of guy that a lot of women will complain has no sense of hygiene. So I just like, never figured it out. What, was my dad supposed to explain stuff to me or something?
For me it's dysphoria related, in that I hate the body hair and the fact of having to manage it and deal with it. I feel so male when I look at it and try to deal with it. I hate it.