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Children of Time is a 2015 science fiction novel by Adrian Tchaikovsky.

In the distant future, humanity seeks to create new habitats for itself on distant planets, terraforming them and seeding them with life. Dr. Avrana Kern is heading one such project, orbiting the tentatively named "Kern's World", where the plan is to release monkeys le-monke infected with a nanovirus that will accelerate their evolution. Through an act of sabotage from an anti-technology group that has also destroyed much of Earth, the monkeys are never released, and the virus instead infects a species of spider, Portia labiata. The book follows the evolution of the spiders and their eventual civilisation, as well as a remnant of humanity that fled to Kern's World hoping to find paradise.


also children of ruin and children of memory, the sequels, are really good


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[โ€“] Wendy_Pleakley@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (2 children)

shaving, body shameI'm used to taking care of my arm hair at this point, but my lower body is intimidating.

It's honestly a source of shame, a big reason for not having sex has been hearing people talk about guy's hygiene and "how disGUSTing men are" and not knowing where to start or how to ask.

I know I'm hairy and smelly, and I'm the type of guy that a lot of women will complain has no sense of hygiene. So I just like, never figured it out. What, was my dad supposed to explain stuff to me or something?

For me it's dysphoria related, in that I hate the body hair and the fact of having to manage it and deal with it. I feel so male when I look at it and try to deal with it. I hate it.

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[โ€“] Babs@hexbear.net 12 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Wearing swords should come back in fashion. My outfit would look much more complete with a smallsword.

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[โ€“] sictransitgloria@hexbear.net 12 points 7 months ago (5 children)

what are good things to do with puppygirls im new to this

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[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago

Witch hazel remains great for my skin and makes me feel like a witch vegan-seitan

[โ€“] space_owl@hexbear.net 12 points 7 months ago (11 children)

do any trans people listen to The Front Bottoms bridget-smug

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 12 points 7 months ago (10 children)

depression/dysphoria/doomingI've been crying all day. It hurts so much. I could barely talk earlier. So dysphoric about my voice. Just in general too.

I keep doing worse and worse. I've been "trying" (half assed and lazily) to get my shit together for years. Haven't been able to. I'm doing worse now. So how am I going to be able to now when I couldn't then.

I can't start hrt because I can't get better. I can't get better because I'm trapped in a disgusting man body with a disgusting man voice. There's nothing to do. I can't force myself to get better. To work on myself, to voice train, none of it. I can't. I never really could. Not quitting if I never tried.

I have failed life. So many things I will never get to see or experience. Because I'm a failure. All evidence points to me just being born wrong. Defective. Whatever ig. What makes a person turn out like this. I can't blame my parents. They tried. I wish I tried harder. Whatever. Hurts too much. What a shame. Not good enough to even try. I am such a disgusting waste of life. I wish I could give this to someone else.

spoiler si Can't believe I have to do it myself. god I wish I'd just die without having to do it myself. I don't want to. I'll just keep putting it off. Like I have so far. :::

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[โ€“] amy_jmayday@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago

anxiety, dysphoriahate when i'm waiting for my meds to get delivered, gives me like a creeping undergrowth of anxiety constantly prodding at the back of my brain. i've been diy for long enough now i know they'll get here, i know i'm not gonna run out, but every time i take my meds i'm like compulsively counting pills and it's like there's a blaring countdown playing in my head - " ~~13~~ ~~12~~ ~~11~~ 10 days until your soul gets ripped out again." really gotta get a pcp again, even just dealing with this once every few months is too much.

[โ€“] yewler@hexbear.net 12 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Well my winter break is coming to an end and I must say I did not miss having to deal with Microsoft teams

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[โ€“] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 12 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

I LOVE THIS BOOK

I LOVE THIS BOOK

I LOVE THIS BOOK

I WANT LARGE SENTIENT SPIDER BUDDIES

IT'S SUCH A CUTE BOOK AND IT'S SO WHOLESOME

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[โ€“] Tommasi@hexbear.net 12 points 7 months ago (4 children)

Trying to get used to drinking water again after having energy drinks being my primary mode of hydration during the winter holidays. Water kinda sucks doggirl-tears

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[โ€“] Tommasi@hexbear.net 11 points 6 months ago

My ~~knit~~ crocheted panda is looking a lot more odd and scruffy than the stuff my sister makes, but that's okay, he's mine and I love him doggirl-thumbsup

[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 11 points 6 months ago

anyone who dislikes the ember island players episode is no friend of mine

[โ€“] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 11 points 6 months ago (3 children)
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[โ€“] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 11 points 6 months ago

My wife thinks she can ratio me. ME!
Pfft, weโ€™ll show her doggirl-smug

[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 11 points 6 months ago

(CW: joking misogyny) TTRPG adventures:I've been grappled and have too little strength to break free on my own, so I shout out to the party wizard to cast Twitch, a spell that causes any target to drop whatever item they're holding

Me: "Can you target the bird man grappling me so I can break free?"

Wizard: "Sorry, Twitch only works to drop objects"

Me: (playing a character who is a trans woman) "fucking transphobic magic doesn't recognize me as a woman"

[โ€“] bolshevikLovelace@hexbear.net 11 points 7 months ago

i have the irresistible urge to be gay AND to do crime... i wonder what that's about

spoilergayroller-2000

[โ€“] QueerCommie@hexbear.net 11 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Muddled philosophy brain go brrr.

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[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 11 points 7 months ago (20 children)

All this time putting nail polish on you'd think I be good at it, nah just slather on a base coat the polish the top. The polish on my skins falls off day after and it looks like I know what I'm doing phoenix-smug

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[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 11 points 7 months ago

Dreamt I was on the moon and I really needed to piss but didn't ๐Ÿ˜ฉ

[โ€“] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 11 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Gonna try taking another break from the bearsite as I have some queer shit IRL planned so I wanna see if I can start doing that to help my burnout. Also think its time for me to say goodbye to this account as its getting too old opsec wise. Sucks because I like this user name :(.

Maybe I'll look into if I can just delete all my posts or something and not make a new account but that still has opsec issues do idk

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[โ€“] nemmybun@hexbear.net 11 points 7 months ago (2 children)

I've been touching obscene amounts of grass lately and have been neglecting what's most important in life - posting in the trans mega

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[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 11 points 6 months ago (4 children)
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[โ€“] Eco@hexbear.net 11 points 7 months ago (1 children)

it's so strange that americans just did that to their cities. complete unforced error

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