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Hello everyone! Hestia here with a new Megathread! Years ago, before I transitioned and when I was still in college I took an anthropology class. My favorite part of the class was when we were covering different gender customs across the globe and got to make a report on one of them. I can't remember exactly which one I chose for that project, but what I do remember is a map with different pins scattered on it with various forms of gender-queerness. I decided to track it down and share it with you folks!

https://www.google.com/maps/d/u/0/viewer?ll=8.016975588774075%2C64.4248907814756&z=2&mid=1zDWxhBN5aOofwpE-FkZWQsiFDlE

Edit: you have to open this in a browser, if you're on a phone it will automatically try to open it in Google maps and won't bring up the info.

This map provides a brief summary of these genders, but does not go in depth. If you find any you're interested in, feel free to do some further research and share your findings here. I'll pin a comment to this post you can attach them. I'm going to share a couple that I found interesting and decided to look further into myself, both of them are non-binary and native american in origin.

The first one I want to talk about is the Winkte, which is a third gender role that was particulatly notable in the Lakota tribe The Winkte are seen as half-men, half-women, and considered sacred. They are typically AMAB and historically have served unique roles in matters of romance and matchmaking and often served as intermediaries for prospecting couples and their families. They also participated in war parties, functioning primarily as witnesses to battle and as doctors to care for the injured. They were also seen as seers, able to forsee paths to victory.

https://www.sdpb.org/blogs/arts-and-culture/the-winkte-and-the-hundred-in-hand/

This next one I'm going to talk about seems mostly local to the Zuni people called the "Lhamana" and I find the Zuni culture to be particularly fascinating, even just doing a cursory glance at it.

Gender roles were well defined in Zuni culture, but the Zuni also valued the concept of a "middle" as it represented stability. This originates from their creation myth, which I won't go in detail here because I don't feel qualified to summarize it, but it's in the link down below.

The Zuni culture is pretty neat and they don't refer to gender when talking about children. They believed that gender wasn't an inborn trait but something you acquired as you approached puberty. I wish this was the western approach, but alas.

As children approach puberty they begin to differentiate through different hair styles or clothing choices. AFAB Lhamana would grind corn and make a bowl of stew when they get their first period. There's probably some cultural significance to this, but I'm not going to do a deep dive on it right now. AMAB Lhamana would start to wear dresses once they hit puberty and start performing women's work. Both AMAB and AFAB Lhamana were allowed to switch between male and female gender roles as they pleased.

https://owlcation.com/social-sciences/The-Middle-Gender-in-Zuni-Religion

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[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 14 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (8 children)

I actually have free time again, what a concept! So, I've returned to creating character portraits. I want to compare two I don't believe I've shown on here. The first uses the older software, and the second one the newer software. The second one also meets the 16-color requirement, while the first does not. There's also a pixel on each that needs fixing. Other than that, which one do you all think looks better?

Also adding a bonus one, made with the newer software

Bonus round 2: Luna "Castro" redone

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[–] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 14 points 8 months ago (2 children)

Ok I'm going clothes shopping for real this time

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[–] WittyProfileName2@hexbear.net 14 points 8 months ago

Spent all week going pharmacy to pharmacy only to find none of them have oestrogel in stock. "They went thataway"-ass prescription.

I've been off HRT for a week at this point doomer and there's no telling when I'll actually get any.

[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 14 points 8 months ago (2 children)

Used the ladies room for the third time, it’s always so anxiety inducing.

I almost would rather take my chances with whatever could happen in the men’s room than potentially being labeled a creep or a predator.

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[–] sweet_pecan@hexbear.net 14 points 8 months ago

i had "lady" like not only are you misgendering me, i feel both old and condescended to too. a triple! why wont people stop. sob.

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 14 points 8 months ago (1 children)

weird body image stuff IdkI was staring at myself in the mirror again--I spend so much fucking time looking at my reflection lmao--and there are obvious details that have changed if you look. I put on some weight, my face has thinned out (which was weird to see in my health card photos, but rules) and all that.

But the overall picture is kind of the same as when I was 18, despite that? You can still see my ribs, I still have noodle arms, I haven't needed to buy a cup size up or anything. My proportiins are surprisingly similar.

It's weird, I literally do not know how to feel. All the big exciting changes seem to have happened in like, the first year or two. And yet clearly all the barely-visible little tweaks and whatever made the actual difference, cuz I do not get misgendered anymore, lmao.

Recently I have been feeling like my body's been in stasis for a decade which is a WEIRD WEIRD feeling. Maybe that's why new fluffy hair on my forearms and calves weirded me out so much, because I haven't seen a major change since years ago? Maybe I will get incredibly fucked up when I develop wrinkles, lol

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 14 points 8 months ago (1 children)

playing fun trans femme games like: intentionally changing your pace as you go up or down stairs to make your tits jiggle

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[–] kristina@hexbear.net 14 points 8 months ago (10 children)

cw fetishization of trans people

omfg does anyone remember the old trans cuties threads on /r/cth? noooo screm

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 14 points 8 months ago (4 children)

Me 5 months ago: "Holy shit I have tits" madeline-shock

Me today: "Holy shit I have tits" madeline-shock

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 14 points 8 months ago (6 children)

Currently very jealous of those who are part of a gestalt consciousness.

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 14 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)
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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago (2 children)

put together an IMPECCABLE fit today and am so sad that i can't post it here

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago

thanxgiving food is so much more enjoyable when you're reheating it as leftovers instead of trying to enjoy it after spending hours cooking lol

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago (11 children)

Recreational estrogen usage should be a thing I feel, popping a few with the homies and just vibin. For all I know this prob already a thing but not like I get invited to things sadness

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago

Hmmmmmm I'm soooo eepysleepy today~ (I was kept up till 7am by chronic pain but still woke up before noon) catgirl-flop

[–] Frogmanfromlake@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Seeing Cenk Uygur flip his arms like a toddler while arguing about the β€œissues” of trans rights makes me glad that the online left has moved past TYT.

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago (3 children)

I spent years putting together my wardrobe. If I start hormones, are they still gonna fit??

Oh shit, this is bad! Will my new fleshy bits be contained??

[–] Yukiko@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago

You'll have time. The changes aren't instantaneous and take a good while. But, if all goes well, yes, you'll have to replace it eventually.

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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago (26 children)

day one of not doing the mega and i already miss having my notifications ruined...

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[–] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago

My sisters BF came over, ans we starting talking about history and geopolitics. He reminds me of how I was back in my radlib days. It hurt my head to have that discussion πŸ˜–

[–] Eco@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago (16 children)

eroticahuman domestication guide wasn't very good imo. i guess not being a submissive means i'm not the target market but still

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

LIFTING UPDATESo I am STILL not lifting yet, it's been like a month. I stopped taking tramadol and like I wanna get back, but Idk if it will make it better. What if without the pain receptors being numbed, it'll just hurt and be excruciating and I die? What if I rot instead???

I like that my chronic pain/fatigue is maybe stopping me from doing the thing that could make my chronic pain/fatigue less bad.

catgirl-cry I am never going to be the beautiful muscledyke........ tfw not athletic........

In other news I have the most creeping feeling that Fallow isn't a one-run game and that stuff changes, more than just the sealed door, if you play it again. I'll have to go back and puzzle over it. Give it more kisses, my beloved.

[–] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago

Do they make shark plushies that are like 6 feet long? Can't find any on aliexpress

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago (3 children)

I keep getting almost frustrated at how much transitioning has improved my life because I can't really explain how or why it has in a concrete way. For a while before my egg finally cracked I remember thinking that "okay I might maybe be trans but how on earth would that solve any of my problems?" and honestly I was kind of onto something there. How would becoming a girl solve any of my problems? That doesn't make any fucking sense! And then I transitioned anyway and oh wow I a lot of my problems have gone away! How does that work? I don't know and it feels like it shouldn't but it did!

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I never should have agreed to 5 12 hour days in a row. What the fuck was I thinking. I guess I was thinking about the paycheque

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[–] kristina@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago (2 children)

whats the gender neutral form of the word dude?

duden?

[–] Hestia@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago

I believe that dude has evolved to take on a gender-neutral form, but I would rather just never be called any variation of dude when there's so many cuter things to call me.

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (5 children)

surgery stuff (positive)finally argued my case hard enough that the surgeon I'm going with says he feels comfortable moving forward with insurance authorization

lost respect for him over the last month, but I don't really need to respect him for him to do surgery. I'll take the W

now back to electrolysis once again. πŸ˜…


I've also learned all the hiragana and katana characters and can remember them without reference transshork-happy

need to learn more words and kanji now. it was really intimidating to finally start learning japanese, but it's really not so bad once I got used to it. I can slowly start reading words in media I like and that's so exciting, even if it takes me so long for now

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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago (1 children)

this is really amazing, thank you for sharing!

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 13 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (15 children)

slightly better-formed whiningThe more I go on the more I am convinced that taking a monthlong sabbatical from life (almost my entire life is queers in the computer) broke something catastrophically in my brain. I am now pretty sure that leaving everyone and everything for longer than like, two days was a huge mistake.

I don't seem to be real normal about it anymore, which might be due to the realisation that talkin' to people is both something I need else my sense of self will melt, (no I don't know why) and a difficult tiring spoon-loss activity. Idk, but it seems like I'm not real capable of thinking about social matters without bursting into tears anymore. What even is wrong with me? badeline-concern

It's possibly true that being on the receiving end of a landleech rentdue notice has ended my ability to relax, which, sucks if true. The chronic pain bs is definitely cutting into my spoon supply. But more broadly it feels like what small scraps of emotional regulation I had just disappeared. My journal entries all look like Nevada paragraphs, and while your Ash will usually sprinkle in Nevada-esque embellishments because the orange book is her entire personality, if she starts writing entire paragraphs of weird dejected overly emotional snarky bullshit, that may be indicative of a problem! catgirl-sorry

It could be withdrawal from a single 37.5mg tab of tramadol causing this too, which I am having muscle twitches and shit, but Idk if "bawling your eyes out at the slightest provocation" is a tram withdrawal thing, it's been like four days or so. If yes I hate it.

I'm also bad at time management, I am told, which is true because I have some kind of brain issue where I haven't been reading Psycho Nymph Exile enough. Mostly making time for reading takes effort, and also bending my brain around weird things takes effort :3 so it's been a few days and I need to YELL AT MYSELF to read gay slop.

TL;DR my feet hurt I wish I had spoons! catgirl-flop

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