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Xenia, the fox girl mascot of Linux, was first designed in 1996 by Alan Mackey. She was meant to be an alternative to Tux, the official mascot.

She had fallen into obscurity, but was noticed by a Twitter user in 2019 and was redrawn as a fox girl. But as it turned out, Xenia was originally meant to be male! The original creator, Alan, was cool with this, saying "It matches the transition of a lot of the smartest, nerdiest Linux users I know" and "And sure, you made her trans!".

So now we have a trans Linux mascot. And I think that's neat.


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[โ€“] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 8 points 8 months ago (5 children)

Can someone tell me to but the cute dresses I've been putting off because of anxiety?

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[โ€“] naom3@hexbear.net 8 points 8 months ago

screm-aaaaa I almost forgot to do my injection today blob-on-fire

[โ€“] rtstragedy@hexbear.net 7 points 8 months ago (1 children)

my boyfriend is listening to Chapell Roan again and he just looked at me and gave a goofy grin and said "this one is pretty gay"

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[โ€“] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 7 points 8 months ago

It's another midnighter ralsei-splat

It was for good reasons though, so I'll give it a pass catgirl-happy

Unfortunately for me, my body won't ralsei-startled

[โ€“] nemmybun@hexbear.net 7 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I set up Fedora on the extra PC and turned that into a media center for my partner and then shortly after I was like fuck it and switched to Fedora on my main PC too. I am now Windows free screm-cool

It's been (mostly) smooth. Luckily I had already switched to a lot of open source apps last time I tried Linux so there's not much of an adjustment phase this time

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[โ€“] AshenWolf@hexbear.net 7 points 8 months ago

DAMN IT I WANTED TO WORK ON WRITING MY BOOK BUT I ENDED UP WRITING AN ESSAY ON MY GENDER THOUGHTS doggirl-tears

[โ€“] morte@hexbear.net 7 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Whew im at the theater to see smile 2 and had to step out for a lil bit which is a first for me

spoilers!


Its had some great scares but theres an element of the main character being a mentally ill former drug user being tormented by an evil entity into rapidly losing her mind in a very, very public fashion. It got too much for me when she went to talk at a banquet for underprivileged youth. I can hear her screaming in there!

Anyway, back to it. The first one was good and im enjoying this one so far

Edit: unitentional slur, sorry!

[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 7 points 9 months ago (14 children)
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[โ€“] hellomao@hexbear.net 7 points 9 months ago

Where is the maybe-later-honey emoticon from?

[โ€“] JohnBrownsBussy2@hexbear.net 7 points 8 months ago (3 children)

Does anyone have experience getting their gender marker corrected on their social security (US)? I have the passport appointment scheduled, and will be ponying up to get that fast tracked, but I a bit confused on the SSN process, specifically when it comes to ID. It sounds like I'd need to mail in an ID if I want to do it by mail, and I am worried about documents getting lost. Is anyone familiar with the in-person process?

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[โ€“] buh@hexbear.net 7 points 8 months ago (4 children)
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[โ€“] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 7 points 8 months ago (5 children)
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[โ€“] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 7 points 8 months ago (2 children)

I think my feet have changed because my winter boots from last year no longer fit. Which on one hand cool because estrogen is working, on the other hand now I need to buy new/used winter boots

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[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 7 points 9 months ago (7 children)

i want to say something but someone has to give me permission.

[โ€“] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 7 points 8 months ago

you can say it doggirl-thumbsup

[โ€“] Thallo@hexbear.net 7 points 9 months ago

I swear to God, Joker

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Idk how this is the first time I'm hearing of Xenia but I love her and her story <3

[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 7 points 8 months ago (12 children)
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  1. Misgendering, sexual harassment
    spoilerI have to do a lot of interacting with the public as part of a socialist thing, and I've realized the hotter I look that day the more people go out of their way to misgender me.

So they're failing at making me feel bad about gender but I still feel icky because its literally just so fucking overtly trans coded sexual harassment

  1. I need to find a social space to use for dating but ugh, I've gotten so picky, except the folks whove made me picky are comrades and I don't date comrades! Ugh! I have a partner but sometimes there are aches that are outside their wheelhouse.

  2. Does anyone else get a really weird mix of dysphoria and euphoria while looking at Chappell Roan in drag? I'm trying to sort out my feelings there but getting swamped by "pretty gender-non-conforming lesbian ahhhh" when I try to.

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