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Final Fantasy XI

Final Fantasy XI is the eleventh numbered installment in the… Okay, you know what it is, I’m just going to tell you about one of the storylines!

During the Wings of the Goddess expansion, adventurers will be sent back in time to experience the events of the Crystal War, a cataclysmic event that is the foundation for conflicts of the modern-day timeline. Should an adventurer choose to serve the Kingdom of San d’Oria, they will be immersed in the story of the Young Griffons—a group of children who would see themselves knights, many of whom grow into prominent characters later in life.

Among the Young Griffons, the player will find Bistillot, a shy boy who doesn’t like to be seen. With his penchant for engineering, shy demeanor, and lack of combat potential, Bistillot prefers to spend his time inside of an orcish war machine that he was able to repair to working condition.

He is often seen before he is heard, with his signature phrase, “HAAAALLOOOOOOOOO” being used to hail the adventurer. Through the course of the story, Bistillot finds his way, even contributing to the war effort with his engineering skills.

However, when another member of the Young Griffons is kidnapped and taken to the present day, the adventurer must return to the present day and reunite with the Young Griffons’ present selves! The adventurer’s first contact in the present day is Bistillot. When the adventurer hears the signature “HAAAALLOOOOOOO,” Bistillot approaches the player, but what the player sees is… a woman?? She introduces herself as Bostilette, a “friend of Bistillot.”

After the rescue mission, Bostilette comes clean. She is, of course, the very same Bistillot who was a little boy twenty years earlier. She explains that she was very sick as a baby, so her parents gave her a boy’s name so that she would be stronger and survive the illness. Once she overcame the illness, she was comfortable to reclaim her name and gender. Well, that closes the book on that story, except… I’ve decided that’s bullshit!

I have unilaterally decided that Bostilette is trans, the sickness she had was dysphoria, she stayed in the orcish war machine because she was an egg, and I hope you all agree!

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (3 children)
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[–] Hestia@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago

About 2 and a half years into HRT and I... am fucking hot. It's such a good feeling being even slightly more comfortable in my body than I was before.

And I'll keep getting hotter and hotter. aubrey-happy

[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I got approved for a bridge welfare payment while my disability application processes lets-fucking-go have to jump through some more bureaucratic hoops to get at the money which is a pain but I have payments building up starting today!!!! happened way quicker than I thought, really happy:)

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (4 children)

had the urologist appointment (phallo related)Not too much to say. He was willing to work with me despite the potential difficulties and had ideas for how best to go about it. He even mentioned ideas for scrotoplasty stuff, which would be pretty much fantastic if that worked out. More than anything, he said that he and the main surgeon are quite stubborn when it comes to finding a way to get a patient what they want. It may end up not working out when the time comes, but I'm relieved they're both willing to modify and try different things to figure this out. They get to be some of the very few to say they did it, so they'll get something out of it too

I was once again assumed to be detransitioning. I am not a masculine person, yet I have struggled to feel even qualified for feminity ever since this thing forced onto my body. I hate that I've had to clarify this for two different people now. Disco Elysium -1 morale each time. I already feel unworthy of it, i don't need people calling it into question even if it's just the default assumed cis error.

anyway, good news is back on the menu

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (11 children)

autism yappingRunning out of instant ramen leads me to reflect that they jacked the prices on all the instant stuff with low prep/cook requirements. I used to buy those Sidekicks-style pasta things, you're supposed to use them as part of like fettucine alfredo and stuff, but I would just eat them, autism. Microwaveable even. Used to be four for five bucks, now it's three for seven. Actual crime.

So this is probably why everything food related feels like a crushing depressing weight lately. Everything has to be cooked from fresh ingredients and then has three days in the fridge. It's exhausting I think, when I'm low on spoons I just wanna put something in the oven or microwave Idk. Putting soya sauce in the stir fry made me want those fucking instant teriyaki things again.

So screech, I hate everything, reee etc

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] Moss@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago (7 children)

I know Moss is the most generic agender name, on the same level as Kai, but the funny thing is I didn't even choose this name. My friends started calling me Moss as a nickname long before I realized I am agender. Assigned Moss By Friends

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 18 points 1 month ago

flight landed. time to go be gay somewhere else now

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (10 children)

oh hey, new mega.

you know what that means??? lets-fucking-go

DOWN WITH CIS

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[–] Luna@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Well, I'm burnt out and breaking down. Time to start breaking her out:

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[–] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Waow these tucking pantys do be tucking well

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (3 children)

spoilerI was SUCH a shitty boyfriend, a slightly better girlfriend but still not all that good. Wish I could've done better

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[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Still into this guy I hooked up with a few weeks ago and we talk most days. HOWEVER, a girl I'm friends with recently said some things to me that made me go hyperflush and my bi brain is in a state

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[–] Eco@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (8 children)

people get weirded out when they see i have my mouse on the left of my keyboard, but are unprepared entirely for the fucked up controls i use in video games

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago

successfully channeled my trans girl powers into fixing my computer today

[–] kristina@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (4 children)
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[–] autismdragon@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (2 children)

My girlfriend invited me to her steam family with her other girlfriends but I'm already in a steam family with MY other girlfriend and HER other girlfriends and you cant be in more than one. My massive library is in demand! But it sucks this is polyphobic!!!!!!!!!!!!

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[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Wife bought me flowers 🥰

spoiler

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[–] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Hope all of my transgender comrades have a nice day. The veil is thin between worlds, make it thinner between genders. anarchist-occult

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (7 children)

All done moving in.

My dad said a weird thing at the airport before I left: “Be a shepherd not a sheep.” Then he repeated it on a voicemail.
The flight was smooth, except for the beginning, I was brave about it.
Used the men’s restroom at the airport despite someone ma’aming me earlier because I am a coward.
Iron Bru is overrated.

That is all.

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[–] Frogmanfromlake@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I like how all the right-wing attempts to create an alt-right pipeline for women have largely backfired. Classical Abby was laughed out of the room, pearlythings became a punching back, etc.

Then you see guys like Destiny and Asmongold. Cis men are apparently a lot easier to manipulate with a much lower bar of entry. You can look like a malnourished rat amped up on crushed Adderall with awful opinions and they’ll become your devoted cult members.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)

The tradwife tiktoks are probably the closest to alt right pipeline for women anyway.

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[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@lemmy.today 17 points 1 month ago

Hung out with my parents (whom I'm still delaying on coming out to) just wearing a tshirt and suspected it was kinda obvious my chest has changed a bit. Afterwards, I decided to ask my brother for extenal confirmation, and he confirmed. So that's cool.

[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (7 children)

lonely, yearning, confusion, sex

Feeling very frustrated by my sexuality right now. On the one hand, i need to have trust and a close emotional connection to someone in order to even experience sexual attraction to them in the first place. On the other hand, part of me is screaming for the strap.

Idk, im just tired and really aroused and lonely i guess. I dont want a dildo, i want a person to hold and be held by; i want to be partnered with someone(s), and have some kind of loving relationship(s), and have meaningful emotional connection and physical touch. But im also somehow both too much and too little for anyone, and need to fix myself before any of that can happen without it all ending in tears.

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[–] naom3@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (5 children)

bad jokeFeeling really frustrated that I’m constantly searching for and ordering new parts for my project until I realized it’s the estrogen: I be shopping now

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (4 children)

cw transphobia, struggle seshI was looking at some old struggle sessions Jack linked recently, and I guess because I am a digital self harmer, I went ahead and looked at the Trans Woman Dating "discussion" thread.

I Hate Cisnormativity I Hate Allosexuals I hate Absolutely Everything

While it's fun to see that the bearsite has improved by leaps and bounds, (huge amounts of accts in that thread are permabanned) it's not so nice to watch what had to happen. TC_69...

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I’ve been feeling more confident about myself lately, but for some reason in the last week or so my self-esteem has went back down and now doubting and second guessing. doggirl-gloom

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[–] Josephine_Spiro@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Can someone tell me to clean my room? If you can incentivise me with like doggirl photos that would be cool

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[–] khizuo@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago

I have now met two other covid-cautious chinese trans communists. it's so funny. (and one covid-cautious chinese trans anarchist, but i think they probably would not want me to call them a communist.)

[–] Edie@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago

Sleep? What's that? limmy-awake

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

My cypro has been lower for like maybe a week and I can already feel the T horny coming baaaaack

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[–] Tomboymoder@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)
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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (8 children)

my therapist more or less kind of straight up told me that i should either ask that one girl i like if she likes me back or to stop assuming that every girl dislikes me because they haven't told me explicitly otherwise. i guess i should probably ask if she likes me back but i'm like 96% sure the answer is no here and I'd rather not make this week any worse on me

god this week has been so fucking awful i hate everything sadness-abysmal

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[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (6 children)

Sometimes you read a Whipping Girl quote and it's like

I think this is best captured by the psychological term "cognitive dissonance," which describes the mental tension and stress that occur in a person's mind when they find themselves holding two contradictory thoughts or views simultaneously - in this case, subconsciously seeing myself as female while consciously dealing with the fact that I was male.

and I understand what she's actually talking about, I can see through the bullshit fog, but fr this cisnormative bullshit is wearing on my mind.

This gender dissonance can manifest itself in a number of ways. Sometimes it felt like stress or anxiousness, which led to marathon battles with insomnia. Other times, it surfaced as jealousy or anger at other people who seemed to enjoy taking their gender for granted.

Indeed, how dare they... their genders...

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (3 children)

hello trans mega today i am full of lesbian thoughts again :)

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[–] Ocommie63@lemmygrad.ml 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (5 children)

nsfwMay have broken my vocel oath last night ;)

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[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 16 points 1 month ago (4 children)

I've now been on HRT for exactly 1 year!

Honestly it still feels like it's very new, and everything this year has been and is going to continue to be hard, but I'm still very happy about this. Unfortunately I can't celebrate it at all today since I'm quite busy, but I put on one of my favourite outfits to at the very least feel very cute.

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[–] Yor@hexbear.net 16 points 1 month ago (4 children)

got vegan bhan mi with my girlfriend and now we're playing mario kart 8 comfy-cool

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