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[–] hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 120 points 4 months ago (12 children)

One thing I've learned is you can't engage in a rational debate with an irrational person.

[–] Lucidlethargy@sh.itjust.works 18 points 4 months ago

Yeah, you can plant seeds... But you won't win anything. And the seeds, you plant will be absorbed by others looking on mostly.

[–] RestrictedAccount@lemmy.world 12 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I don’t think most of the people we are talking about are irrational.

They are arguing in bad faith.

It’s not that they are stupid, it’s that they’re stubborn.

And arguing against them actually poses risks because they will lie about what you said if they can use it to polish their lies.

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[–] iAvicenna@lemmy.world 79 points 4 months ago (1 children)

tolerance is a contract, not a gift.

[–] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 23 points 4 months ago (1 children)

my fist is a gift to the faces of bigots

[–] Zementid@feddit.nl 12 points 4 months ago (1 children)

To avoid bigotry is really hard nower days. I don't like Israels genocide but don't think all Jews or even Israelis are monsters. I absolutely hate the Iranian politics of murdering women for getting raped and similar stuff, but I don't think war is the solution. And suddenly someone jumps out of the woodwork blaming you "for support of genocide".... am I the bigot? I don't know any more...

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[–] jabathekek@sopuli.xyz 74 points 4 months ago (1 children)

You can't explain stupid to stupid.

[–] VelvetStorm@lemmy.world 24 points 4 months ago (1 children)

You kind of can, but for the most part, it is better to just not engage unless they are showing themselves to be an open and honest interlocutor.

[–] Masta_Chief@lemmy.world 15 points 4 months ago (1 children)

TIL the word "interlocutor"

"1. a person who takes part in a dialogue or conversation."

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[–] TheYojimbo@lemmy.world 61 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Thanks to you that apple is a Nazi now

/s just in case

[–] barsquid@lemmy.world 26 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Apple: I was a very far left leftist with strong values a d principles but then someone was rude to me on the internet and forced me to become a Nazi.

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[–] luciferofastora@lemmy.zip 52 points 4 months ago (12 children)

An open society that doesn't want the intolerant to undermine and topple it must be ready to defend itself - by reason and argument if possible, but these may fail because the intolerant reject reason itself. Force should be the last resort, but if all other means prove fruitless, it should be a resort still.

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[–] mandelbrotvurst@lemmy.world 45 points 4 months ago (1 children)
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[–] VinnyDaCat@lemmy.world 40 points 4 months ago (6 children)

Look, I am a big believer in attempting to educate other people and better the world around you by trying to change harmful or hateful outlooks, but I also realize that some people cannot be changed. Trying to engage these types of people in real life is just putting yourself in danger. Engaging them online is fine but there's a limit to how long you should spend having dialogue with someone who could probably argue their irrational viewpoints for weeks on end without stopping.

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[–] AnarchoSnowPlow@midwest.social 36 points 4 months ago

But but my freeze peach!!1!21!

[–] NickwithaC@lemmy.world 33 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Is this centrism or is it just a bad faith argument from a bigot?

[–] Zink@programming.dev 36 points 4 months ago (7 children)

The person making the argument could just be naive too.

I could see myself 25 years ago making such a statement in completely good faith, trying to see both sides and all that. But I was naive to think that both sides were also arguing in good faith.

But to be fair, that naive messenger would still be repeating an argument that originated in bad faith.

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[–] Aeri@lemmy.world 33 points 4 months ago

Woe, Tolerance Paradox be upon ye.

[–] polysics@lemmy.world 30 points 4 months ago (11 children)
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[–] potatopotato@sh.itjust.works 21 points 4 months ago (4 children)
[–] aeronmelon@lemmy.world 29 points 4 months ago

…of at least one apple, sure.

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 11 points 4 months ago
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[–] BluesF@lemmy.world 21 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (5 children)

I appreciate this, I really do, but you do have to be careful not to end up like certain leftist Reddit subs where I got banned for the heinous crime of suggesting that voting for Harris might produce better outcomes than voting for Trump. Some level of discussion that goes beyond what the majority (or, lbr, the mods) think has to be allowed or you just have an echo chamber.

Granted, that isn't what is happening in the comic. The apologist here is genuinely advocating tolerance of Nazis. This situation is appropriate.

[–] angstylittlecatboy@reddthat.com 14 points 4 months ago (1 children)

In my experience, most self-identified centrists, at least in the US, are to the right of what anyone reasonable would actually consider center. And I don't mean that in an "um ackshually the Dems are center right" way either, I mean they're often just Conservatives who don't hate gays (but do hate trans people) or something.

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[–] Burghler@sh.itjust.works 16 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Godot discord in a nutshell

[–] turtletracks@lemmy.zip 17 points 4 months ago (3 children)

So is anyone rational actually leaving Godot? I saw that Redot, last I checked they were 52 commits behind, and their only 4 commits were changing any references of "Godot" in the code to "Redot"

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[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 11 points 4 months ago (8 children)

They're not really centerists, they're just trying to stir the pot. Jon Stewart had a really good podcast on all this on the Weekly Show. I could only find a youtube video on my laptop, I think it's the full thing by the time.

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