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Talk to people at concert. If you're at a shoe you're allowed to walk up to strangers and just introduce yourself and ask how people are doing, you'll make some friends eventually. Chit chat with smokers between bands, if it's a smaller show and you liked a band and see someone who played, just go tell them they played a good set, if they're on tour ask how that's been going. People are drinking and in the space between periods of loud music, its a very socially open state.
i guess I'll have to get over myself. I always feel like I'm intruding in every social situation unless someone approaches me first. I also tend to be like 10+ years older than everyone at social events and that feels weird.