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"For most markets where DoorDash operates, customers are prompted to tip on the checkout screen, with a middle option already selected by default. If they want to, they can adjust the tip later from the status screen while awaiting their food, or even after it’s delivered. That’s changing today; while blaming New York City’s minimum wage increase for delivery workers, DoorDash announced that for “select markets, including New York City,” tipping is now exclusively a post-checkout option"

It seems so ridiculous given tipping fatigue, that DoorDash is making what should be a given sound like a negative.

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[–] Surp@lemmy.world 76 points 11 months ago (6 children)

I'm 100% for not tipping in USA. But the bastards that own the restaurants and company's won't pay these people what they deserve. Time for nationwide strike in the restaurant/food delivery industry imo.

[–] Rediphile@lemmy.ca 25 points 11 months ago (1 children)

The reason they won't pay is specifically because people tip.

[–] C126@sh.itjust.works 7 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Well, and people are willing to roll the dice and accept work where tipping is an essential part of their income.

[–] supamanc@lemm.ee 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Forced to. People are forced into these jobs...

[–] C126@sh.itjust.works -1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Stop perpetuating the system by accepting that it's required to accept these positions.

[–] supamanc@lemm.ee 2 points 11 months ago

When there is no social safety net, and you need money to live you can't afford to be picky.

[–] Tedesche@lemmy.world 9 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Time for nationwide strike in the restaurant/food delivery industry imo.

That will never happen, because the truth is that these folks do make more from tips than they would from any sort of overall wage increase. Unfortunately, but not surprisingly, tip-receiving workers tend to favor the tipping system in my experience.

[–] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 16 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Then fuck tipping because it's a non legal added tax on my food. How about that?

[–] Tedesche@lemmy.world 5 points 11 months ago

You’re preaching to the choir; I’m just pointing out that expecting tip-receivers to strike to end tipping culture and secure higher base pay for themselves is a pipe dream.

[–] histic@lemmy.dbzer0.com -3 points 11 months ago (1 children)
[–] interceder270@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago
[–] interceder270@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago

That will never happen, because the truth is that these folks do make more from tips than they would from any sort of overall wage increase. Unfortunately, but not surprisingly, tip-receiving workers tend to favor the tipping system in my experience.

This is a major reason why I, personally, don't tip. Those who like working for tips need to understand that they are not entitled to tips.

[–] matjoeman@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

Yeah, really tipping should be replaced by being partially paid on comission, not just a flat wage increase.

[–] Paddzr@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago (3 children)

Is the job shortage this bad where people can't just go work elsewhere?

[–] Soulg@lemmy.world 9 points 11 months ago

It can be exceedingly difficult to find a job for a lot of people, yes

[–] dumpsterlid@lemmy.world 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Have you ever applied to a job? It can be an exhausting experience especially when you always have to do it after getting out of work from you current shitty job that exhausts you to the point that you would rather do anything else than think about work.

[–] Paddzr@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I've been working since i turned 14. I'm in my early 30s now. I've been through many jobs and never really had an issue finding work. It has a lot to do with the area of work, region, luck, time and fuck tons of charisma to make yourself stand out. I moved countries and counties. I've been through the gauntlet of retail, healthcare and freelancing / contracting. My perspective is skewed because of it, my question wasn't dismissive, I genuinely never had a downtime or could afford to be without a job for even a week. But I'm not from the States, I've got no idea what the market is like there, I can only speak for my experience on the other side.

Apologies if it looked disrespectful.

[–] Gestrid@lemmy.ca 1 points 11 months ago

Not the person you replied to, but here's my story.

It took weeks for me to be able to get my first job. I would either "fail" those online tests to see if you're a "good fit" for the company or I would not do well in the interview. I finally got a job, but it involved working overnight.

My second job kinda just landed in my lap. A friend of mine let me know about a job opening at the place they worked at. I applied, interviewed, and got the job. (I suspect my friend talked with the person who decided to hire me, but I've never asked him to confirm.)

I was eventually let go from my second job. I spent a few weeks recovering from the shock of being let go. (I had what I think was an anxiety attack from it, and, since I didn't know what was going on at first, it only got worse as I started to get more anxious from being anxious.)

After I got better, I applied for my third job. I spent a few weeks applying to jobs but, again, kept failing the personality tests or the interviews. Eventually, I was able to get another job, though. I actually got it pretty easily because it was a similar position to my first job, just at a different company.

[–] HawlSera@lemm.ee 1 points 11 months ago

Yes "Nobody wants to work"

More like nobody wants to hire

[–] interceder270@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago (2 children)

I never tip and hope that voting with my wallet will cause more people to realize that they should be fighting owners, not customers or employees.

[–] samus12345@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Hopefully you never eat at the same place twice, either.

[–] interceder270@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)
[–] samus12345@lemmy.world -1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

"That's a nice meal you have there. Be a shame if there were some bodily fluids in it."

[–] interceder270@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago (3 children)

I've worked in food service before. Committing felonies by tampering with food is exceedingly rare, and not something people tend to do just because they don't get tipped.

[–] PsychedSy@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 months ago

The only tampering I ever saw was when the owners visited and ran their mouths.

[–] systemglitch@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago (2 children)

I watched my manager spit in chicken sandwiches at KFC when I was a young cook there. Imagine what I didn't see?

I think it's more common than you realize.

[–] samus12345@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Did he at least have a reason?

[–] systemglitch@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

He said he didn't like the guy.

[–] samus12345@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

Well, it's a reason, but not a good one.

[–] interceder270@lemmy.world 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Did you report them?

I think it’s more common than you realize.

Because you saw 1 instance at 1 location from 1 person? Lol.

[–] systemglitch@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I love your blind faith in humanity, it's quite endearing.

[–] Voyajer@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)
[–] systemglitch@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

What would be the point? My word vs a well liked managers word? That doesn't end well for this peon on multiple levels.

[–] samus12345@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Not a risk I'd be willing to take.

[–] interceder270@lemmy.world 0 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Well, then you're paying the price.

[–] ReluctantMuskrat@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

And you may pay in a different way.

[–] samus12345@lemmy.world 0 points 11 months ago
[–] whofearsthenight@lemm.ee -1 points 11 months ago

Hey, good principled stance... I guarantee literally every server, and I mean absolutely every one, thinks you're the asshole and they are 1000000% not thinking about the realities of the tipped industries when they see the bill with a zero percent tip.

Also, I kinda think you're the asshole if you're dumb enough to believe that you, the one you, is somehow going to change tipping culture in America by not tipping.

[–] Zibitee@lemmy.world -2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I've been to restaurants with mandatory 20% tip included in the bill and let me tell you, I don't even know if I got service worthy of 10%. It seems to be more of a cultural problem though. Even when their salaries are covered, American restaurant service is pretty lackluster. Without the carrot on the stick, it doesn't seem like they're even willing to try.

[–] dumpsterlid@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (2 children)

Working in a restaurant is probably one of the most consistently hard jobs in the US. It takes like 3 times the amount of energy that the average office job does. I don't think you are getting bad service because the people that are serving you are just lazy, they certainly wouldn't be working in the food service industry if they were lazy.

[–] Riven@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 11 months ago

As someone who's first job was washing dishes, I would argue it's more than 3 times if it's even a moderately busy restaurant. I have a cushy office job now and hands downs I still think waiters work insanely hard, especially because they're on their feet all day.

[–] Zibitee@lemmy.world 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I've worked in restaurants too, mate. I get that it may be a lot of work, but the experience also let me know that the service I'm getting is usually pretty subpar. I don't mind tipping good waiters, but they are pretty rare outside of fine dining. Lazy waiters, like lazy employees in any other job, are always going to be a plague on their industry.

[–] dumpsterlid@lemmy.world 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Why are lazy workers a plague on industries? What makes you take that framing and not another framing like the fact that many industries treat workers like shit and pay them shit?

Perhaps the problem is you expect great customer service from someone who is getting paid so little they can’t pay off any debt, afford any kind of housing that isn’t living with their parents or living in a shitbox with way too many roommates, afford good health insurance nor even really afford to feed themselves with healthy food.

Fundamentally WHY do you look at someone you perceive as not working hard and your kneejerk response is “they must have no reason for their behavior other than they are lazy” ? You are being extraordinarily intellectually lazy yourself to dig no deeper than “they look lazy” and to assume they don’t have good reasons.

If your worldview is based around pointing at people continuously and saying “well they are lazy, that worker looks lazy, that other worker looks lazy too” at a certain point your worldview cannot explain reality. Most humans need to do something productive and meaningful in order to not become intensely depressed, if your worldview tells you all those people are lazy that means your worldview is missing big chunks of reality. There are exceptions of course, but when you write off large groups of people as “just lazy” you are universally, always just being a dumbass who is probably playing right into the hands of bigots or capitalists who want to crush you just as bad as the people you look down on.

[–] Zibitee@lemmy.world 0 points 11 months ago (1 children)

You're attacking me to accept shittier service? Fuck that. I've worked in food and have been paid minimum wage. I can identify lazy when I see it. You're just a bigot making conjectures and attacking people for not accepting bullshit service. Get the fuck outta here with that shit

[–] dumpsterlid@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Well you sound like a miserable person, glad you get shitty service : )

Also how on earth am I acting like a bigot here?