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Ya girl is getting the hell out of [red state] and moving to [city in blue state] this week! Will edit mega with more later perhaps.
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My gf is going through a rough patch and has said she's thinking about SH and and that she "really doesn't want to be alive." She says this is a long-standing problem and that she doesn't know what to do except keep trying. I'm attempting to get her into therapy but that requires some effort on her part (though I've said I would do as much of the admin as I can). We still need to sit down and figure out who will take her insurance and get the whole process going. The relationship is still fresh and I still have a lot to learn about her, though she has told me a bit about her various unresolved traumas. It seems like she's not been putting much effort into getting better (understandably difficult to do when you're depressed). I was helped by a few good friends when I was in a similar place and want so much to help her, if I can. I know I can't just will her to get better even if she gets into therapy but I gotta do something, you know? I'm hoping that she at least comes to internalize that she is loved and cared for, that she isn't alone, and I hope that gives her a little energy to move forward. When she's not being dragged down by depression, she is the sweetest, most wonderful person in the world. She is so deserving of love and happiness and my heart hurts so much for herMy heart also hurts for all the trans people in the world driven to these thoughts by the death cult that wants to kill us, the parents that we know are not safe to come out to, the "health" "care" "system" that wastes our time and saps our energy. I want all my trans siblings to know self-love and the love of others. I don't want to lose anyone else
SuperZutsuki I expect you to balance out my self harm with sex posting what is this
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I fell for a girl that really needs help and hasn't been seeking or receiving it. She has a large community but seems to keep this part of her to herself mostly, so I don't know if anyone else really knows the pain she's going through. I want to support her in any way I can, just feel like shit, want to see her happy.