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My vehicle is also inoperable so I'd need to use their car too which would be oooouughh owie fuck
But i cannot lie about it - ive already been a habitual liar my entire life so I need to be truthful but im so fucking terrified rn
They'll be like "woah this is so sudden" as if I didnt start thinking about this like halfway through puberty and i already came out to them once before and it went poorly and i turbo repressed after that
Gruh. Buh. Fuck. Grugh. Buh. Glug. Slug. Fuck.
You absolutely have to tell them. I am dealing with finally being aware that I am in fact a sexual being. And its been awful and amazing at the same time. The problem is I might be poly, gay, bi straight, who knows, but I'm in a long term presumed monogamous relationship.
If I were to go out and explore my sexuality without talking to my partner that would be cheating. If I am open and honest, it's likely we can work through it. If I'm not, its bound to end our relationship.
The same goes for you. If you care about your relationship, you have to tell them about it. It will be difficult. But you can't ignore who you are. It will be much, much worse. Don't repress yourself for decades like I did. It's not worth it.
Good luck <3