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My vehicle is also inoperable so I'd need to use their car too which would be oooouughh owie fuck

But i cannot lie about it - ive already been a habitual liar my entire life so I need to be truthful but im so fucking terrified rn

They'll be like "woah this is so sudden" as if I didnt start thinking about this like halfway through puberty and i already came out to them once before and it went poorly and i turbo repressed after that

Gruh. Buh. Fuck. Grugh. Buh. Glug. Slug. Fuck.

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[–] insurgentrat@hexbear.net 9 points 2 days ago

Look I can't tell you how to live but I know a lot of people who wish they started transitioning earlier and no people who wish they'd waited or are glad they decided not to.

Partners drift apart for all sorts of reasons, you can't guarantee you'll be in a happy and fulfilled relationship if you don't but if you've felt this way since puberty then you can probably guarantee that you'll feel this way in 10 years. Do you want to live with that?