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I forgot that it's my mega week so no big info dump this time. Instead I bring a question: how do you practice gender self-care? Do you have any activities or rituals that make you feel more comfortable in your gender? Painting my nails and taking care of my hair are the most consistent ones. These shouldn't even be considered gendered activities by society, but I missed out on having long hair and painted nails when I was younger because of my assigned gender, so doing them now feels validating and gives me confidence.
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Also bitter. I shouldn't have to see cis women when I'm like this.
dysphoria
Imagine having full tits and a waistJust ridiculous everyone else gets to be blessed. And then the VAST majority of them feel no empathy to my struggles. Can't put themselves in my shoes and understand how awful this feels.
I feel so bitter. This is such bullshit. Now I have to suffer with this God awful body. Why can't I just look like everyone else. No I get to be fucking ugly and deformed and unattractive. Bitter. Why the hell do I have to go to work. And then bonus I get to see a bunch of fucking cis women my age. Who probably wouldn't support me and think I'm wierd all because of how I fucking look, all because I'm fucking trans. What a load of shit.
tits and waist
Like hopefully fingers crossed in half a decade my tits will be nearly fully in and I can afford 10 grand to get rib remodeling and then I can finally have a waist that's still twice as big as theirs. Yay!I don't even know what will make me feel less bitter and shitty and dysphoric right now. Maybe some caffeine will help. Some caffeine and my vitamin. Fucking hell.
From the looks of it not looking at cis women will also help. Although avoiding women can be very tough ...