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Dysphoria and regret, somber
It's so difficult to appreciate my body since I had surgery before. I have to be so careful how I look at myself and make sure I'm not seeing that thing on me. It sucks cause, I'm at a point where I like most of my body. HRT did it's job and I'm feeling good about my figure, but this thing makes me want to cover up and hide. Hard to accept that I'm probably losing a decade to this. Why couldn't I have been more bold? I said no that morning, I should have trusted myself.I've read that people who had vaginoplasty eventually get past that phantom limb feeling. I'm glad I've been able to cling onto that feeling. It's probably the only thing that kept me going on the worst days.
It's one of those worst days :/
I still believe that I can get through it - that goes for everyone here too, everything that feels impossible. We can get through this.
Seconding this. No matter how hopeless it feels, we're still taking out HRT and we're still breathing. Ain't that proof enough?
Real :/
Wish I had more to say to more of this. I am sorry.
It's okay, just one of those things where acknowledgement is enough. I get the most restless when I have to wait. I'll moving to another state soon, so hopefully the surgeon I'm working with will still work with me.
We'll both get through the things in our way, even if it takes time. I'm sure of it.