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The longer I work in tech, the more I want to move to a farm 50km from neighbours with just me, my partner, a couple dogs, chickens, and cows.
It's a common escapist fantasy but are you equipped to handle the needs of chickens and cows?
It's a common criticism but do you think a reasonably smart person couldn't struggle through it? I reckon they'd be especially likely to succeed if they were equipped with a good book and some humility. Humility can't be given but pieces of advice can. Do you have any good ones?
Well there's that word, "struggle", do you think the average city dweller raised on video games and car trips to Walmart really understands where food come from, or how?
I think if you gave them a year or two of runway with wikipedia and some YouTube tutorials they could figure it out. It's not black magic
I have friends that have chickens. I will never do that
"The more I work in tech, the more I wish I was independently wealthy."
I love how people use the word "just" when making statements about the simple life.
Simple ain't always cheap....
Simple ain't easy either. Fix yer plumbing, fix yer roof, fix yer fence, feed yer chickens (yes, every day!), clean their poop, etc. etc. etc.
Homesteading is a lot of work, and you can't just go away for a weekend to visit a friend or explore a new city. It needs constant attention, and the more "independent/self-reliant/off-the-grid" you want to be, the more you need to do everything yourself.
And even then you need to buy supplies and materials. You're not going to grow a year's-worth of food in your backyard vegetable patch, and you're not gonna make your own lumber, pvc, copper wire, etc.
There's a lot you can do to achieve a greater degree of independence, but ultimately it's still dependencies all the way down.
Even the Buddha recognized the interconnectedness of everything in the world; he wasn't just some detached stoic with a community of self-sustaining monks. They depended on the generosity of their surrounding communities, and to this day Buddhist monks still do.
A lot depends on how many luxuries you can go without. Tiny house means less work; no modern plumbing means no maintenence; ditch big hvac systems and only worry about heating/cooling a room or two; no indoor wiring needed if you only have a couple solar lamps. Yeah you'll still have some reliance on getting stuff you can't fabricate but it will be much less stuff
Livestock complicates things a bunch but it can be easier if you're OK living off a simpler vegetarian diet and putting in the upfront legwork for more durable/low maintenance food sources (native food forest).
Your life might be dark and shitty but it will definitely be simpler and easier. But if you want to optimize for a higher QoL you'll probably have to join a cultist farm commune.
Not every commune is a cult, and we should really break that stigma...
Not necessarily, but one focused on an extreme primitivist lifestyle probably are. People generally don't coordinate maximum isolation from society without some ulterior motives.
And why not? Society has lots of problems. If people want to live their lives in some alternative way, why shouldn't they be able to? Why shouldn't those people be able to gather in one place and form communities, as long as those communities don't become abusive?
Abusive power dynamics exist in society writ large. Why do we single out communes and say they're bad, while we ignore how coercive and manipulative the average corporation is?
This whole idea that "communes are bad because they remove people from society" is based on the capitalist lie that people need to work and produce value for the owner-caste, and that any other lifestyle is a wasted life.
Why can't people who want to be isolated from society be isolated from society?
The problem isn't living lives in an alternative way, it's that a full rejection of society requires an insular and opaque lifestyle. You don't get qualified inspectors telling you your house is a fire hazard, you don't have access to medical professionals or diagnostic equipment, any education/information/opinions become warped/inbred/outdated over time, lack of suitable elder care or child care (depending on demographics), etc...
"As long as they don't become abusive" is doing a ton of heavy lifting in your argument. Who's getting let in to check for abuse? What recourse do people have to get help when they may not have transportation or phones? Are they really isolated from society if they must submit to our judgement? What measures could exist to correct abusive dynamics without external coercion?
A corporation can be bad (and they might not be punished) but at least that's in the light of day. Regardless of how shitty things seem, I'd take a public discourse about our social ills over hushed whispers between abused wives and children. We can openly debate about the pros and cons of leaving society but such seditious talk could cost you your livelihood if the leaders of a commune think you're not all in.
Depends how you live, but yeah. It can be expensive.
I’m in tech and live off grid, best of both worlds
Goals.
you should look at open land out in deep rural areas.
you're more likely to kill yourself than get a farm these days.
not since the corporations bought up all the farm land.
Around COVID times, I had a coworker who bought a 100+ year old farmhouse out in Minnesota and we could see over time how he was fixing it up. Then he quit and started his homestead. Enviable man.
but yeah, I've heard of a lot of people in tech quitting at 20 years, which seems high? but at around 13+ years, I get it. I just don't really know what I'd go to
I work in tech, but not “retire at 45” tech. I’ll be working till I’m 70.
I was in tech for more than a decade. I will NEVER go back to it. It's life sucking shit piled on more shit.
I feel that right there
Wait, are you sure youre not talking about an actual journalist with actual ethics stuck working in modern-day "journalism"?
are you sure you don't want spyware in your house? Are you sure you don't want new shinies?! daddy oligarchs told me that was the most important thing in life.