Bigender and genderfluid people exist. I am AMAB, generally comfortable with being labelled a man but sometimes I identify and present myself as a woman, I even go by the name Alice on certain social medias. It is far from a black and white topic.

Also possible she was just conflicted or just scared to make her gender public, given she mainly used the name Lilly and she/her pronouns on less public accounts.

[–] LeeeroooyJeeenkiiins@hexbear.net 2 points 22 hours ago

For some reason i feel like I shouldn't portray myself as femme online but it isn't really due to lack of comfort with that presentation and more that like, idk, it feels like I'd be stealing trans/genderqueer valor or something? Like i think it might be good for 'op sec' to use all them pronouns every now and then but it feels like id be doing something wrong