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familial dynamics criticism discussion
really sincere conversations happening now (elsewhere) talking about being critical of the nuclear family unit, and the dissolution of that idea.
More interestingly to me is the critique of the "found family" trope. Specifically, trying to re-create the nuclear family dynamics within the found family. Such as : seeking a parental relationship / assigning somebody to be your parent. I think this also extends to sibling dynamics as well. (It should also be pointed out that I don't have a problem with people who give a shit about each other, coming together to help each other as a "found family" in terms that don't have a power dynamic.)
I can say that this was also brought up to me by an older non-binary person, who said that they felt it was ageist for people to automatically assign them as their parental figure and demand emotional labor from them.
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I definitely understand where its gross to assign someone as a parental figure and expect them do emotional labor and stuff- something I have specifically had to try and avoid doing even though I do needBut I guess I don't understand what the issue with sibling dynamics is in this context? Could you expand on that one a bit more?
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like an older sibling / younger sibling dynamic
an example would be a sibling forced into a caretaker role, when they are not really equipped / prepared (or desire) such a role
and then the lines can be blurred between parent / sibling who also says they are your "best friend"
that's just an example off the top of my head