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[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 35 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I'm male but when I was a kid, my mom talked about stranger danger a lot and warned me about the supposed widespread kidnappings (was in China) and warned of "strangers following me home" I constantly just look around and glance back behind me every 30 seconds or so and check if someone is following me... and same thing when in the US too

This habit just stuck with me...

I probably look weird af lol

[–] Sunsofold@lemmings.world 3 points 10 hours ago

Fun fact, that behaviour, which becomes more common among people living in areas with higher crime rates as a self-preservation technique, is viewed as suspicious behaviour by police, and is likely to get you tracked by security if you do it in a store.

[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 10 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

I tend to turn it into a "casual sweep" of the scene. I'm looking at leaves, architecture, license plates! Well, and also getting a glimpse of whoever's around me. From being bullied in grade school, to learning to fly in college, with growing up as a young women between the two eras, situational awareness has become baked into my existence. But it's not a bad thing, it's a skill.

Tangentially, I wonder how much of this increased situational awareness plays into our famous "women's intuition"? If we're taking in more of our surroundings, it makes sense our unconscious minds will notice more readily when something's "off."

As well, I've often considered my "luck" to come down to increased awareness. When retrospectively thinking about a sequence of events, I can sometimes put together how noticing A led to me doing B, even if I didn't consciously think about it at the time. Like unconsciously noticing that a car in front of you is somewhat lopsided and getting the urge to switch lanes and pass them. You're not thinking about it. But later on when that car spins out on a flat tire, you're well past them - a safe distance away.

Or a situation that undoubtly makes people think I'm lucky - finding four-leaf clovers. A split-second scan of the ground and I can notice a four-leafer in a patch. Just a few months ago I was pumpkin-picking with my girlfriend and it happened again. We were standing outside and I was telling her about this exact phenomenon when I stopped, laughed, crouched down, plucked one particular clover, and handed it to her. "See?! It just happens!" I then proceeded to find two more, and at that point I knew I had to stop myself.

So yeah, it's not all bad. :)

[–] korazail@lemmy.myserv.one 1 points 9 hours ago

I'd wager that women are taught to be aware of their surroundings for safety and men just don't ever get told, so unless there's an experience that teaches them, they tunnel vision.

Teaching situational awareness seems to be something that is lacking. Similar to critical thinking, I believe that there are skills we sometimes just don't get taught by our parents or natural experiences. These are things we hopefully learn over time, but having them called out while we develop isn't happening (I blame screens, but it's nuanced).

I tend to monologue to my kids when doing routine things, like loading the dishwasher (There's a big bowl over there that I need to save room for...) or driving (I can see a car on the on-ramp, it will want to be where I am in a few seconds, so I'm adjusting my speed); just pointing out things around me that have either a real impact or a potential one and why those items came to my attention.

[–] razzazzika@lemmy.zip 6 points 17 hours ago

Im trans, grew up male thr first 28 years of my life, and I look around everywhere, not because I thought I was in danger but because I have ADHD and cant just look in one direction. I never feared for my well being while walking at night before transition and still dont after, but that fear was never instilled in me I guess.