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Im here because reddit keep banning my site wide for no reasons and i could use something new. I know about piefed/lemmy, i must say its pretty good but is it the best alternative to reddit is there more out there?

Just wondering what you all think?

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[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 0 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

people who use a platform based on it's supposed politics are never going to be normal. they are going to be ideological and see everything through said ideology and try to enforce that ideology on others on the platform.

and they aren't going to allow 'normal' content if normal isn't coded/policed to be consistent with their beliefs.

reddit was 'normal' until 2016, and then slowly every aspect of the site was politicized. i used to have lots of different viewpoints and a general consensus in the middle somewhere. after 2016 reddit started fracturing into more extremist camps who would take over various subreddits and impose their views on everyone else.

[–] disregardable@lemmy.zip 14 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I definitely have no interest in content where it's just conservatives who want to pretend that it's normal to hate people or whatever. I meant more like, fun memes, earth photography, local events, etc.

[–] Uncredible_Hulk@lemmy.org 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Have you tried Mastodon? It's more like a replacement for twitter but there's definitely accounts you can follow that just do memes, photography, muppet gifs, etc... You can certainly fill a feed with that there.

[–] lepinkainen@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Mastodon leans heavily to the nerd/geek side, very very few normies have ever signed up

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social -2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

what about content where it's liberals hating on conservatives or policing every event for diveristiy and inclusion?

like i used to post about bike rides on reddit. and host them. then i got harassed for being 'ableist', because what about someone who can't ride a bike, i'm excluding them and being discriminatory! no bike ride should exist unless it's inclusive for people who can't ride bikes because of a disability or lack of physical fitness!

[–] Jmsnwbrd@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

You getting grief from a liberal idiot who is too overzealous about inclusion is not exactly the same as someone posting about hatred, fear and exclusion.

[–] disregardable@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I definitely wouldn't care about that personally, but I would just block anyone who is an issue.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 0 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

yeah i can do that, until they report me and get me banned because the mod in charge of the community agrees with them.

fwiw i got banned from reddit entirely, for having an outdoor cat and posting about it, because it pissed off many 'cats are mass murderers and should only be kept indoor' users, and the mods who agreed with them. i was banned over the pretext of 'promoting violence' by allowing my cat to be outdoors, and therefore being 'pro mass murder'.

It gets nasty real fast. this wasn't even in a subreddit about cats, it was in a local city subreddit.

the issue is that people have a massive bias that their choices and beliefs, are the only valid and correct ones, and everyone else should be silenced or abused until they agree.

[–] ThuggyG@piefed.ca 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Reddit has gotten impossible with that nonsense. I got banned from a sub for calling out someone who posted a tweet about tariffs being beneficial as a scholarly source. I said, this isn’t a source it’s some guys opinion. 

In another sub I got banned for suggesting that liberals claim to be above using attack ads was a dumb opinion because they’ve never said any such thing.

The polarization is bad for everyone.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social -2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

people who are polarized don't see it that way. they only care about your agreement or using violence if you disagree.

lemmy has a ton of users who openly advocate for violence against those they disagree with. but if you ask them if they apply that standard of themselves, they say start telling you that's the 'paradox of tolerance.' because you know their opinions are totally good if they are intolerance of the intolerance! but they themselves should be tolerated! or something. it's pure insanity.

everyone wants to be the perpetrator of violence, but never the victim...

[–] givesomefucks@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

it was in a local city subreddit

So...

People in your community had an issue with you destroying local wildlife and endangering a pet...

And that was your takeaway?

That kind of makes it feel like all the rest of your issues are being similarly misrepresented, and there was a lot more going on than you're saying.

[–] givesomefucks@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

reddit was ‘normal’ until 2016,

Lol