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I've been getting weird name feelings. I picked out my name awhile ago, and it's what everyone I'm out to knows me by (some of them for several years at this point). I really like it, it's me a lot of the time, but I have to admit it's not me all of the time.
Between middle names, and initials, and possible nicknames or stuff there are like... seven or eight different names that I think are Me and could go by, and depending on the nature of my relationship with people would want to go by multiple or all of them to a person. I just don't even know how I would like, convey that or bring up the subject. Just, "Hey, I know you've known me as [Name A] for like five years since I've been out, and like that's still my chosen name and stuff but also I'm kinda also like [Name B], like I'm still [Name A] but also [Name B] I'm like both, so you can like use both interchangably."
idk, it's not even that big of a deal, it's just kind of annoying because lately I've been feeling a lot more like [Name B] than [Name A]...
Very relatable. I feel like names are treated so rigidly in society that it makes it much harder than it needs to be to do this kind of stuff. When I've been telling people my new name I've straight up just been like "and don't be surprised when, not if, I change it again or add on to it". I refuse to be boxed in haha