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[–] PowerLurker@hexbear.net 39 points 3 months ago (2 children)

heterosexuals be like grillman my partner is a ball and chain my life is a dungeon grillman

[–] ConcreteHalloween@hexbear.net 36 points 3 months ago (1 children)

TBF this post was partially inspired by my lesbian cousin.

[–] PowerLurker@hexbear.net 35 points 3 months ago (1 children)

in this economy, it’s not just the straights who aren’t OK eviscerated

[–] ConcreteHalloween@hexbear.net 32 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Honestly, I get the joke, but I think the stereotype that queer relationships are inherently less prone to toxicity than hetero ones is at times a bit harmful.

I've heard plenty of accounts of toxic, if not right downright abusive, gay and lesbian relationships.

[–] PowerLurker@hexbear.net 18 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

no i don’t disagree im just shitpostin’ and been drinkin a little

i think the grain or two or three of truth is that hetero ones tend to have a higher baseline of harmful shit ya gotta unlearn. but the trope can easily veer into model minority type shit and also just like minimize the bad (or even abusive like you said) experiences queer people can have in relationships.

[–] ConcreteHalloween@hexbear.net 16 points 3 months ago

Nah you're fine.

[–] WokePalpatine@hexbear.net 13 points 3 months ago (2 children)
[–] PowerLurker@hexbear.net 10 points 3 months ago

for the record fellxs: i fr*ggin love my gf!!

[–] invalidusernamelol@hexbear.net 7 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

For the record, so is mine and this is not a bad thing