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When you're taking pictures of yourself, don't use a mirror, it'll double the dirt and distort you. Just put your phone on a little tripod (very cheap) at waist level roughly 6 feet away, and use the self-timer. Try not to go any lower, that's how you look like a giant with a chin. Too high above you, and you can look like you have a massive had, and a small body.

Face the light source, not away from it, and diffuse lighting is generally better.

There's loads of posing guides out their, generally just try to get your whole body standing up. Maybe hit THE POSE.

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[โ€“] catter@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago (8 children)

weed, mental healthBeen scared to try weed because for a while it could put me out of a job, but I just switched to a place that doesn't care. So I tried it last night. Wow. It felt like being a kid again. For a brief moment, I enjoyed my hobbies, found things funny, and generally "felt" again. I could tell it was wearing off when my smile faded away. Chronic depression sucks.

That gave me some hope that I can feel joy. I can be happy. Did some makeup (badly lol) today and that feeling of joy was there. I'll have to wipe it off soon, but oh my goodness, I see me in the mirror cat-trans

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago (7 children)

spoiler... should I try weed? I'd like something that helps with depression.

[โ€“] FumpyAer@hexbear.net 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

!It will be a small reprieve once or twice, but if that becomes your new baseline, then without weed you will feel worse than before.!<

[โ€“] catter@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

spoilerI meant to add this aspect as well, but I'm inexperienced and didn't know how much that would come off as scaremongering. You could say similar about my antidepressant as well, for example, but I would never steer people away from those. I think the mindset going in is important, that it may not be a solution in itself but can be a tool to make dealing with your problems a little bit easier / more bearable.

[โ€“] FumpyAer@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago

For sure that should be mentioned, but some medications are worse than others for that. It is good to ask your doctor and also read medication reviews. There are sites for that.

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