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[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago (3 children)

spoiler... should I try weed? I'd like something that helps with depression.

[โ€“] FumpyAer@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

!It will be a small reprieve once or twice, but if that becomes your new baseline, then without weed you will feel worse than before.!<

[โ€“] catter@hexbear.net 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

spoilerI meant to add this aspect as well, but I'm inexperienced and didn't know how much that would come off as scaremongering. You could say similar about my antidepressant as well, for example, but I would never steer people away from those. I think the mindset going in is important, that it may not be a solution in itself but can be a tool to make dealing with your problems a little bit easier / more bearable.

[โ€“] FumpyAer@hexbear.net 2 points 1 day ago

For sure that should be mentioned, but some medications are worse than others for that. It is good to ask your doctor and also read medication reviews. There are sites for that.

[โ€“] mendiCAN@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

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rom my experience it doesn't help at all long term. much like booze you can get relief using it for a moment but, just like alcohol sometimes it doesn't help at all or makes it worse instead.

negatives outta the way it's an easy high with easy withdrawal, so if you're in need of a crutch for a bit you could do a lot worse.

I've done lots of drugs and this is just my experience as an afficionado. ymmv


[โ€“] catter@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

spoilerI have only used it once, so I can't really speak to that. I know there are people who use it for depression and pain management, though. My siblings are all potheads ๐Ÿ˜ฌ I will probably keep using it every once in a while.

It was nice to know that I am not unhappy and anxious in my essence. The brief time I was mildly high made me want to do more to make myself joyful through the day.

Sorry for kind of dancing around your question. Hopefully someone with more experience can chime in too

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

No, it's not a problem doggirl-grin

It doesn't take much for me to just try. I live in a country with lax weed regulations.

[โ€“] catter@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago

Best of luck! I hope it is helpful trans-heart