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[โ€“] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 4 points 1 week ago (6 children)

One of the albums that came out halfway through this year that I was my most listened to album of 2025 was from Strange New Places, which talk about their experience(s) being trans (no clue who writes the lyrics or if multiple members contribute - I just listen to the music). She/her/hers music also sings mostly about the trans experience.

If you just want to know more trans artists, I can just list more.

[โ€“] HexaSnoot@hexbear.net 3 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Yeah you can list more if you want. Thank you.

[โ€“] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 4 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Punk is my most listened to genre (especially folk punk), so my list will reflect that. The bottom of the list, I included a few very not-punk mentions.

In a unexplainable order (if I only listen to like one song, I'll put it in parenthesis):

-Laura Jane Grace/Against Me!

-Sister Wife Sex Strike (not sure if they really write about trans topics)

-Ankle Grease

-Dog Park Dissidents (all of the music, but only Trans Starship BDSM paradise is specifically trans)

-Blue Foster (IDK if I'm a boy)

-Qfolk (Nonbinary Fantasy Trash Babe)

-The Spook School (Binary)

-Ryan Cassata (Gender Binary (Fuck you))

-Rotten Reputation (Dysphoria Borealis)

-Schmekel (Genderqueer Love Song)

-Stomach book

-femtynyl

-fem&m

-milkypossum

[โ€“] HexaSnoot@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Skipping around your list. So far I really like Blue Foster's "IDK if I'm a Boy." I love to see Laura Jane Grace be confident and show that female singing voices can sound like however a female sounds like.

Laura's confidence reminds me of something sad.

Listening to Laura is healing. I knew a very unconfident trans woman who I was told loved loudly singing in the past. Knew her for years and never ended up hearing her sing. I stopped talking to her because she was a huge downpuncher with fash values who took her insecurities out on everyone she could. Once she expressed that it's hard to be a conservative trans person. It would've been nice if she was compassionate and a flourishing, loud singer like Laura. Oh well, at least now I got Laura in my playlist.

[โ€“] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

IDK if I'm a boy and Gender is Boring by She/Her/Hers were the songs I listened to on repeat the year I realized I was trans. Both of which have ended up in my brother's playlists as well.

LJG/Against Me! is probably the artist I've listened to the most consistently over the past like 13-14 years. Listened to her before the transgender dysphoria blues came out nearly 12 years ago (which is sometimes considered her coming out album*), but I was perplexed by her gender before that album because she used her deadname still back then, but like... I was pretty certain she was using she/her to refer to herself in Trash Unreal (which I still don't know if she was referring to herself in third person).

She was already a favorite of mine before the transgender dysphoria blues came out and that easily became my favorite album of mine. Somehow I never realized that maybe really loving songs about gender dysphoria might suggest I had some introspection to do.

But its cool how my perception of even her old music has changed over the years such that I even find it affirming to sing along with even the oldest Against Me! albums. There may be some drama about her personal relationship with her now ex-GF, of which I know little about and perhaps is just smoke.

*Ocean and Searching for a Former Clarity came out well before that, but cis people are oblivious. TBF, I never listened to the lyrics until after I realized I was trans a few years ago.

[โ€“] HexaSnoot@hexbear.net 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

It's interesting how we can research things we're going through without even being concious of the fact that we're researching our strange life experiences that are happening/have happened to us. I had no clue I was genderfluid until I found out Dorian Electra was not doing drag, but rather a person who went by "they/them." I got obsessed with their fun music videos and it led me to understanding myself more. They're the reason I finally internalized they/them as real pronouns. I respectfully called people they/them before, but i didn't really get it until Dorian showed me a strong example.

The lyrics to "Ocean" are a beautiful and romantic vision where LJG is clearly free and in love as a cis woman, and I love it.

I'll slowly check out the album "Searching for a Former Clarity."

[โ€“] HexReplyBot@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago

I found a YouTube link in your comment. Here are links to the same video on alternative frontends that protect your privacy:

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