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Segregated anything is fucking dumb. Segregated internet communities are especially fucking dumb because anyone can be anyone on the internet.
Congratulations, you're the man they're trying to forget exists for 10 fucking minutes a day in their off time!
Who said I was a guy? Again, anyone can be anyone on the internet.
You did in reply to this post
A segregated internet would be more like if they had a whole version of Lemmy for all topics but only for women, and then didn't also participate in the other one.
This is just one community calm the hell down they can have their space.
-the people arguing against that comm, probably
You've angered the incels.
Fuck em. "Oh but it's a free Internet people can participate wherever they want"
Yeah you have a right to be a total dickwad and scream in people's faces at the grocery store, don't be surprised when everyone thinks you're an ass though. They don't want your input. That. Simple.
Replies like this make me wish Lemmy let you give people Gold like Reddit.
That's really ignoring a mountain of history. Up until a decade ago, "there are no girls on the internet" was a common saying.
I just see it as a way to foster and encourage an under represented segment of the community. It feels completely valid when that segment is still often met with hostility from weirdos.
the point of the saying was that your sex/gender shouldn't matter for internet comments.
it wasn't to exclude women.
self identifying yourself as a man or women will radically change how people interpret your comments. a lot of people assume i'm a woman from the way i comment. then they would find out i'm not a woman and harass the shit out of me for upsetting/subverting their gender expectations.
You misunderstood the meme. Unless anyone verifies IDs, anyone online can claim to be whoever, and everyone's a fucking liar. 12/f/cali? Definitely FBI.
Simping for someone online claiming to be female is senseless. Personal characteristics shouldn't matter. Better to assume they're a nameless, sexless avatar.
Also I wonder how it would look if we made a Men's Club community where only men were allowed and women were openly mob-scolded for participating. Would probably be considered a pretty sexist environment.
Literally nothing is stopping you from creating a community for men with a rule that only men participate. The difference is that in the community you're thinking about though, women wouldn't be constantly trying to mess with it. There are hundreds of communities to choose from. We're not entitled to participate in them all.
The major point isn't whether or not it's possible to create it. The major point was that it would be considered sexist, I imagine. Or at the very least a little cringe.
/c/dull_mens_club@lemmy.world
The official Dull Men's Club website encourages women to participate as well, so I don't think it should be considered as a men-only community:
FWIW that community is just inspired by something that already exists outside of social media. The community owner kept !dull_mens_club@lemmy.world up since it's pretty active, but the new official/recommended one for dull stuff is !Dullsters@dullsters.net . They explicitly wanted it to be more inclusive (not that DMC was only restricted to men posting).
Hey, go for it! If c/mensliberation became men-only, I'd support them! There are some communities where women wouldn't have anything to contribute, and that's okay and wouldn't be sexist.
But just don't go full kiwifarms with a men-only community and I'd say that's fine.
I'm not interested in a men's only club. How very boring. What would we talk about that women wouldn't be able to join in on the conversation? I never understood that. Women's perspectives are valuable, just as any person's perspective. 👍
It isn't all or nothing, though. No one is taking away co-ed discussion groups. It's okay that you think it's boring, but it's another thing to argue that single-gender spaces should not exist due to those personal preferences.
Both can exist. Both is good. :)
I agree. I'm not making an argument that they shouldn't exist. If someone wants a single-gender/-sex community, that's fine by me. 👍
The mens club you're talking about DOES exist though. Since men are not a marginalized minority, that club is just called society.
Your logic mirrors asking, ‘Why not create a whites-only club?’ Technically, you could, but people would rightly view it negatively because white people, as a group, are not marginalized. Exclusive spaces for minorities exist to provide relief from the discrimination or bias they routinely encounter. For groups that do not face those barriers, everyday society already functions as their ‘exclusive space,’ which makes it difficult for non-minorities to understand why others might need a separate environment.
We're talking about Lemmy communities here, having a men's-only space to discuss men's issues is totally fine. Also, demeaning men's-only spaces and placing men in a uniform category as "the oppressor group" is awful for society
Society doesn't allow women? And openly scolds them for participating? I dunno. It's "similar"? I guess? Anyway, the other person makes a lot of the points I would make too so I'll let y'all hash that out amongst yourselves.
It exists. Or did. Menslib over on that other platform.