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And what language and region is it?

I've noticed my language teacher uses the informal you in one language and the formal one in the other.

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[–] stoly@lemmy.world 1 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

Technically English has this too but it's not used outside of extremely formal situations. You = formal, Thou = informal.

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

I'm certain there is no situation like that. It's just a dead part of the language. Most native speakers don't even know how to use it properly when imitating old-timey speech.

Quakers use "thee/thou" sometimes, but only because the movement has been around since just before the end of the shift to "you" for everything, and it's fossilised in as a result. There's a few weird British Isles dialects that preserve it too, but they're not widespread.

[–] tal@lemmy.today 2 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

It's archaic. I can't really imagine a situation in which we'd use "thou" today for formality reasons. If you say "thou" , you're pretending to be someone from hundreds of years ago or you're quoting the King James Bible or something that is hundreds of years old.

I think a more-reasonable division between formality and informality would be whether or not one uses a title like "sir" today.

[–] stoly@lemmy.world 2 points 13 hours ago

Sir is not a grammatical person. You/Thou are, however. That's the difference.