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[–] SwitchyandWitchy@hexbear.net 1 points 2 months ago

Yup that's exactly how I used to feel. I did daydream a lot when I was younger and I allowed myself to live a second life as a girl in those daydreams. If you did something similar, it might be a good way to examine what your younger self may have wanted to experience or express. If not, actually either way, experimenting is a great idea others have brought up. Getting your nails done sounds like a fun thing to try! I understand the fear, all I can say is that each of the few times I was at a nail salon, it was just no big deal. Which I've heard so many other people say. And if you have any IRL friends or family that you feel comfortable telling that you're questioning gender stuff, maybe they'll go with you like a few did with me when I was questioning and in my early days after hatching.