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[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 10 points 6 months ago (2 children)

spoilerwoops x3

dresses emphasizing shoulder dysphoria is so real though. i basically dont have it at all but when i put a dress on??? ouch. i find it easier to just wear a matching colored skirt and top, still looks like a dress to most people anyway (especially if its in black).

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 8 points 6 months ago (1 children)

spoilerI like to buy pretty much only sleeveless dresses as I find the shoulders are less of a problem then. Then I can put a t-shirt or turtleneck or something under in cold weather. Or a cardigan over.

I also love a dress and blazer combo. I like to buy men’s blazers in cute patterns/materials/colors that aren’t overtly masculine. These coats are often on sale because they don’t sell as well as more traditional options. I got the cutest pink linen coat this way. It fits better and looks great.

Pocketless Dress and jacket with pockets also makes me feel like a 90s superhero with the body suit/jacket combo.

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 7 points 6 months ago

spoilerironically exposed shoulders actually makes them less visible/dypshoria inducing. funny how that works.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 8 points 6 months ago

spoilerYou know what's funny is that I do have broad shoulders and I sometimes get a little dysphoria about it, but I rock a sleeveless dress! I get a lot of compliments about my collar bones - which seems like an odd thing for people to notice and find attractive... but its happened a few times now so whatever I like sleeveless dresses now lol