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A lot of women consider it a deal breaker to this day
I call those women... never. Had a girl turn up with a friend, everyone paid for their own drinks. And this was in the early 00s.
If I remember correctly (it's been over 16 years), my wife suggested separate checks the first time, and I told her I'd pay this time and she could get the next one if she wanted to go out again.
I think I still ended up paying for the next one (or separate checks), but that wasn't a cultural norm thing, I just get uncomfortable with other people paying for me.
My current fiance said she almost didn't want to go on a second date with me because I wanted to go Dutch on our first date. She still tells me to this day that I'm lucky I was cute.
what does go dutch mean
Butt stuff
???
Sorry, was funny to me at the time! It's splitting the bill
Date pays for their stuff, you pay for your own. Basically, separate tabs.
To be clear, I would have paid if she had asked me to at the time. When the bill came for the food, I asked if she wanted separate or together, but my phrasing made it sound like I wanted to split it and she said that was fine. Whoops.
Don't worry, she's making up for lost time. I pay for almost everything when we go out now 😅
Humans are weird. I'm glad we penguins aren't as complicated.