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Okay chat I have kinda a burning question in my mind that I've been wondering for a while.
Okay, so my cisf friend, several years ago, wanted us all to go to ikea and she got a blahaj and kept like asking me if I knew what it meant (I did not) and kinda smiling/smirking. What did she mean by this? Obviously she knew it was a trans woman thing- so I guess I don't understand?
Maybe she thought you were trans
Or she just thought it was really cute
Probably not, she was fine at first when I came out but kinda ditched me after I asked her to use my name.
Maybe.
It's unfortunately not uncommon for people to find your transitioning cute or endearing or positive in the abstract but once they have to acknowledge that you are in fact who you are and you expect them to respect that, fall off like that. You're cute to them as a pet, as a toy, but not as a fully realized human being.
Transitioning really put into contrast who my friends were and who tolerated me so long as I was useful to them somehow. I keep my friends close, anyone who tries to put a disclaimer on their support of trans people - of transfems in particular - can fuck right off. I don't have time for that shit.