Hi everybody! My schedule has been really unforgiving, so I may or may not end up writing something and making changes to the post later in the week.
Regardless, I hope you all have a good week!
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I had countless moments like that for 20 years before I got it. I think my ex-partner I was with for most of that time being transphobic had me subconsciously suppressing and never examining those moments in detail. When I finally broke free of that relationship and started processing the trauma it all came bursting forth. I'm more than a little pissed at my younger self for staying in such a toxic relationship and delaying becoming my true self but at the same time, I likely wouldn't have moved across the country and met my current partner who is fucking amazing if I hadn't suffered through all that.