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pointless complaining
Feeling the dysphoria so much lately. Why does all the trans stuff have to be so much gatekeeping by insurance / medical professionals / etc. . Top surgery would improve my life so much. But no. I do own a binder, but it's too small, I need to get a bigger size before I can wear it, it's expensive, and it's not the same as actually fixing the problem of having the wrong body. No hope of transitioning unless either my family changes their opinion on trans issues or I find someone else to support me. Sad.spoiler
I have the exact same issue where my binder is too small and a new one is too expensivespoiler
Yeah it's fucking annoying and expensive and just unjust. It's a real inequity.I hope your family comes around or you figure out how to get stuff sorted on your own (tall order, I have support from people and I have spare cash and it's not like it's any easier except my threshold for bullshit and willingness to be pestering and annoying maybe).
What do you need your families support for top surgery? For them to pay for it or be on their insurance? It's definitely not cheap but you could save up for it.
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I can barely take care of myself / cook food / etc. when I'm healthy, I will definitely need help with that when recovering from a big surgery...
Currently, I also live off their money as my own part-time job does not pay enough, but I hope that somewhen in the future, I get a better-paying job. (Or maybe instead the economy collapses and I never find employment again and go die, that's probably the more likely ) Maybe then, I can save up some money. Good point.
Is that possible for the hormones, too? Paying for them out of my own money instead of insurance? Or are the only options either going through whatever processes the insurance needs, or buying it from shady places online? I looked up "informed consent", thanks to someone on here suggesting it, but unfortunately that way doesn't seem to be offered in this country
And everything else aside, just having them navigate all the bureaucratic mess and schedule appointments would be incredibly helpful, they got much more experience with how to get these system to do what you need them to, if they were on my side, I probably already could have started transitioning
Small hope that maybe I can somehow convince my mother, at least she doesn't actively hate trans people
sharing isn't pointless dear idk why it helps but it helps and we are here for you to share these feelings with.
i'm sorry to hear you're going through some dysphoria. It really does suck that so much of what should be so simple is denied to us due to politics.