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Guess I need to find better friends because I have a couple of these and I've never met any of their friends lmao
Hmm, they may also just think you don't vibe with their other friends tbh
Like I rarely host big social functions myself despite saying the above tbh because my friends are just so different from each other. Like I do not want to have a party with extroverted liberal tech bros, introverted straight edge career artists, chronically online ex-4chan commies, druggie "burnouts", etc.
I've had small 2-4 people hangouts before and they usually don't go that well even when I try to pick people that I think would vibe well with each other
This is all true and what I figure to be the case too. Just feels like maybe I don't truly vibe with anyone and that I'm just the token "weird" friend.
Then again, a couple of them have also said they'd introduce me to some potential dates but then just never brought it up again so idk.
If it makes you feel better I rarely get invited to big social functions either lmao, maybe like once every few months
I'm just making friends with a bunch of other weirdos who accept my weirdness but also recognize I cannot vibe with most people