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What would you have done? White guy observing anti-black racism. (lemmy.world)

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I'm a white guy from a fairly non-diverse city. I was at a grocery store today where a cashier opened up their line to serve me and, I thought, the person behind me. As they were serving me, though, they put up their lane closed sign right in front of the black man behind me. The buy was just trying to purchase some tuna, bread, and peanut butter.

The cashier basically decided to serve me, a middle class white man, but refused to serve the black man behind me. I was so shocked that I didn't say anything. It is possible that I misunderstood the situation but it seemed so blatant.

What should I have done in this situation? Should I have spoken up? Would that have just been more embarrassing for the man who was being discriminated against?

Honestly, I'm still just in shock to see someone treated so poorly when they were simply trying to buy food for themselves. I recognize that means that I'm sheltered but I also feel like I should be able to use my unearned privilege to help others who are being discriminated against.

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[-] j4k3@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago

Call them out on it. "Do you have a reason why you needed to close this line and not serve him?" Then be ready to walk out, or take a pic of the cashier and send an email to corporate for the store.

Buying the guy's stuff could be classy, or it could be demeaning depending on if he can see you as an ally.

I'd be damn willing to walk out and let them put all the stuff back while I go somewhere else.

[-] Dasus@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago

And what do you do with your outrage when it had nothing to do with who was in line and everything to do with the employee having an exactly 12-minute long scheduled break and the time is already running?

Have a 12-minute long argument with them, making sure they don't get to their break?

[-] j4k3@lemmy.world 0 points 2 months ago

I don't care about racists, and never will.

[-] Dasus@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

And how would you know this was racist?

Registers get closed dozens of times a day in a supermarket, no matter who is in line.

Unless you're implying that black people should be treated differently than other customers? That registers should never be closed if there's a black person in line? That would pretty much constitute racism — as positive discrimination is still discrimination.

Have you ever worked in a grocery store?

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