y0kai

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[–] y0kai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

if your kid doesn't want to do something, don't force it on them. I'm not talking about the things everyone needs to do like brushing ones teeth or getting an education. I mean, don't sign them up for a baseball team if they show no interest in baseball. Don't force them to hang out with the neighbor kids if they don't like the neighbor kids. Don't force them to wear their hair they way you think they should, etc.

let them make their own choices (within reason, ofc) and teach them that they have their own agency. if you do or don't want them to do a thing, explain why, have a dialogue ("no back talk" is bullshit, sometimes your kids have a good point an you're being an asshole) and listen to them.

[–] y0kai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 1 week ago

Isn't that what he meant by "America First"?

[–] y0kai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 month ago

yeah and this may be the way to go at this point. i was just excited to make a totally custom rig and use things like Gen 5 pcie nvme. but now I'll just not do that. fingers crossed the bubble pops and a bunch of these bullshit "ai" businesses stop existing

[–] y0kai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I appreciate the advice, but that's what I've got already. It works well, but I was hoping to make a significant upgrade and move away from spinning disks and such.

[–] y0kai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 month ago

yes this is terrifying, actually.

[–] y0kai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 36 points 1 month ago (11 children)

so happy I built a new PC last year. so pissed I cant make a new server this year

[–] y0kai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 121 points 1 month ago (1 children)

so CIA guy escalates war on civilians when civilians weren't doing it for them.

[–] y0kai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 93 points 1 month ago (6 children)

TIL all the Civilization maps are on Saturn

[–] y0kai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 1 month ago

yes thank you! 100% agree. I should not be the one having to shove my noise cancelling earphones in just so someone else can blast some 10 second instagram short that repeats over and over and over ad nauseam while they, I assume, scroll through mindless bot comments.

[–] y0kai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 month ago

no lol, they're all unfit and that's the point.

[–] y0kai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 1 month ago (13 children)

awesome!

I'm curious as to how much profit is lost by M$ or Apple for each basis point of the market that switches to Linux.

[–] y0kai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 month ago

instructions unclear. am on roof of local diner and cops are yelling at me now.

 

An example of what I mean:

I, in China, told an English speaking Chinese friend I needed to stop off in the bathroom to "take a shit."

He looked appalled and after I asked why he had that look, he asked what I was going to do with someone's shit.

I had not laughed so hard in a while, and it totally makes sense.

I explained it was an expression for pooping, and he comes back with, "wouldn't that be giving a shit?"

I then got to explain that to give a shit means you care and I realized how fucked some of our expressions are.

What misunderstandings made you laugh?

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