[-] carbrewr84@kbin.social 21 points 6 months ago

Napoleon Dynamite. Tried watching it a few times with friends who insisted it was funny. I just found it more annoying than funny.

[-] carbrewr84@kbin.social 19 points 6 months ago

So you don't think you should be held accountable for the rules of the place you're in and for trying to escape?

[-] carbrewr84@kbin.social 20 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

And how do people know that? How do they know you're not pretending to not be a nutcase?

Do you understand that people can pretend to be kind, normal, etc as a way to sneak things in?

I'm sorry you had to go through these things, but you seem to lack some serious awareness of others.

[-] carbrewr84@kbin.social 10 points 8 months ago

Weight is actually a good thing in the snow. Too light of a vehicle and it's hard to get any traction without something like tracks.

The struggling in the snow is most likely an issue of tires. If someone put some all terrain or ideally snow tires, I'm sure it'd do significantly better.

[-] carbrewr84@kbin.social 31 points 9 months ago

Rock climbing isn't my thing, but I helped out today taking some pictures at one and wow... there are a lot of people at those. People need belayers and it just had a generally friendly atmosphere. Plus you get exercise. If I was in need of friends and liked rock climbing, I'd definitely be going there more often.

[-] carbrewr84@kbin.social 6 points 9 months ago

I met my late wife on Match.com in 2011 and we had a wonderful marriage. After she had passed away, I took some time to myself, but when I started dating again, I tried a variety of sites.

Hinge, bumble, tinder, and match all got me dates, but I eventually met my now girlfriend on match. We've been together over a year now and marriage is in the future at some point, we're just not in a rush.

It's worked for me twice now, so I think saying it's impossible isn't necessarily true. A lot depends on your location, interests, etc, but if you keep at it, you're likely to find someone eventually.

Perhaps post your online profiles, or portions of it, to some dating advice magazines and get some feedback. Without more information, we can't know why it's not working out for you in particular, but regardless best of luck out there!

[-] carbrewr84@kbin.social 13 points 10 months ago

Long story cut alittle short, I’m a forgiving person and I CAN forgive her.

You can forgive her, but don't take her back. She cheated on you many times and if she justified it previously, she'll justify it again. The same applies to all people who cheat on their significant others. They lack integrity to end a relationship if they want to pursue casual sex, relationships, etc with other people, so the next time some dude comes along and tempts her, if she's interested she'll cheat again because if you take her back now, she'll know that you'll forgive her and accept her back again.

I'm sorry you're going through this, but these events don't happen in a good relationship. Forgive her if you need to and move on without her. Take some time to yourself, heal, and find a partner that wants to be with you and only you.

[-] carbrewr84@kbin.social 32 points 10 months ago

When I was working as an engineer I used both autocad and revit, autodesk has been a piece of shit company for a long, long time. Their greed knows no limits and unfortunately they have convinced their markets that the cost of working with them is just "the cost of doing business".

I'd love to see the day they crash and burn as a company, but I have a feeling that's just a far fetched dream.

[-] carbrewr84@kbin.social 9 points 1 year ago

So, if the person who is attacking you is much larger, or there are more of them, even if it's a prank, you're going to just throw a punch or shove them? What a privileged position you must be in to think you can simply punch or shove an attacker. Say that to the 100lb woman a 250lb guy is advancing on, she should just shove him, right?

Look, I don't know if you're ignorant or trolling, but if someone is acting like they're going to attack someone and they have justifiable reason to fear for their life, then deadly force is a reasonable response. I'm not going to get the shit beat out of me, or killed, because "hey, it might just be a prank."

[-] carbrewr84@kbin.social 12 points 1 year ago

It's technically not orange light bulbs they have to use, it's a specific lamp style called 'low pressure sodium'

Here's an article that explains the reasoning behind Hawaii's lighting sources and the regulations:
https://www.accessfixtures.com/hawaii-lighting-ordinances-dark-sky-regulations/

[-] carbrewr84@kbin.social 18 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Red light is great for a headlamp when you want to preserve your night vision, you're also walking instead of traveling at +60 mph. Red light also doesn't provide you with any color differentiation which would be an issue with already existing road lines (yellow vs white) and street signs along with the simple notion that humans are used to light in the full spectrum from the sun.

The biggest issue with headlights is people putting LED lights in older, halogen bulb housings that don't scatter the light the same as LEDs which leads to blinding lights that are quite bright. Additionally, you get those assholes with lifted trucks that don't re-aim their headlights and they too add to the annoyance and danger of driving at night.

Better enforcement of existing laws would help, but that's asking a lot of police these days when they seem to have so many other "better" things to be focusing on. /s

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