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During my days on Reddit, I've had some hangouts with quite a few people with whom I shared some really niche interests. Good times.
Ride a bike. Touch grass. You'll meet someone eventually...
OP how old are you?
And I mean age range. Not exact age.
Linux users groups Maker spaces Artisian guilds (metal working, wood working, etc) Clubs Volunteer with places Get involved in local politics Work a career and network with people
Etc
Social media honestly is very lack luster in mak8ng deeper friendships to me
Go to a real supermarket (without ordering online!).
Wait until you see a random person there.
Smile and say "Nice butt!"
Go to a pub, get drunk.
I use a 3D game like territory for it. Oh, the name of this is real life.
You don't. For what I've seen is something people are born with it, the perk to make friends in every situation... my younger brother have dozens of friends, actual friends, I have 0. I just live with it.
That's how I've always felt. I've always been the friend of those people. I've only ever made 1 actual, deep connection with a person. And it's deeeeep. And I couldn't tell you how it happened. But I partly feel like I'm losing that, and I won't ever be able to get it back, or replicate it with someone else.