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Yeah, but I'm still doing it on purpose to help the community grow. Somebody's gotta fill this place with content, and at the end of the day that's our job.
Normally I'm more of a commenter exclusively unless I need the services of a specific community. (video game question usually) But the Lemmy project has sent me digging for all the best youtube stuff I've seen in basically the past decade and then finding the community to shove it in.
Same here. I have a 9 year account on Reddit with only a few hundred posts and karma; by the time I found something worth posting about anything I posted would either drown out in the noise or essentially already be posted.
the worst part is you'd almost always end commenting in a thread that gets deleted due to rules etc if you tried to get ahead of the curve and comment in a brand new post. I'm way more active here because I'm trying to help build the community.
I am but I'm very quickly finding out I have nothing to contribute.
I'm the most boring human alive.
I'm trying. so. hard. to. Help!
You should share the thing that you're most terrified to share with others and i bet its not boring... for e.g.... maybe you like to eat boogers... i am sure lots of people will be like... holy hell man... and they will be repulsed ... but it won't be boring. Then you could start a niche community of booger eaters and this community could share stories and recipes... and that sir or miss... is how you contribute instead of lurking.
I just like that I can post an honest comment and not worry about being Well-Ackshually'd to death. Sometimes I'd be knee-deep in Wikipedia fact-checking and suddenly realize, "This reddit reply is not worth the personal effort I am putting into it."
Or "I'm too late to the post. The front page algo refreshes too fast, and nobody will read my comment anyway."
This was my main reason not following most of the biggest subs like askreddit. Even if it's an interesting question, by the time I see it it's just not worth replying anymore because no one is going to read it anyways.
I used to be an avid participant on reddit, but haven't been for a long time. Now on Lemmy, I feel like participating again.
I think it's because it's on us to make this a great place now. Like, we can't just migrate and be silent. Or migrate and be assholes. We come here, we gotta participate positively, so I'm just doing my part.
Right? When the community has to work towards a goal together, everyone does a little better.
Me and my people are powered by spite. I am going to try and be more active to help everything along so that reddit may die.
Always felt unwelcome posting anything on reddit. Lemmy is new enough and filled with people who are nice enough to make feel like I wont get yelled at for commenting or posting.
Same here, every post feels like I'm making a small contribution to a platform which I really want to succeed.
Still a lurker tbh, aside from this comment
We need you, too. As long as you're upvoting and downvoting, you're helping curate content.
Yeah, they're actually the backbone of the community. We're not the power that keeps the trolls at bay, they are.
I am a lurker for life, probably, but I will try to be better for Lemmy, to help the site grow.
I mostly lurk too. Unless I've had a drink, which is now.
Posting is essential to get this community up and running so thanks!
I think that as a result of the size of reddit, it was unlikely to have engagement when you commented, and it was common to get unkind engagement if it did happen. It’s nice to have a fresh start, but since there’s less of us, it is also a much more intimate experience.
What I like about Lemmy is, that you don't need to be one of the first comments to interact with people. On Reddit you would easily be buried somewhere at the bottom but most Lemmy posts I see have a really nice comment section. People are more likely to see your comment because the posts don't have hundreds of comments but there are still enough comments to start a conversation. I also love that I can have conversations stretched over days. I don't browse Lemmy often. I don't need to feel bad when I answer something a day later.
Not to that extent, but yea.
Maybe because posting here seems less like shouting into the void? I get replies to most of my posts and comments. Way more engagement.
Yep! Since it is a smaller community, it feels less like screaming into the void. There's a good chance people will see a comment, even if it isn't made in the first hour or so.
Oh yeah, same here. The community is just so much nicer here. :)
I'd comment lots on reddit, but rarely post. On Lemmy, I post! Even started a community!
Absolutely! I'm posting multiple times a day some days and commenting a lot more. It feels a bit more like you get noticed but also doesn't feel like you're going to get your head bitten off just for speaking. And you can use emojis here 👍👋
Agreed. It’s a smaller community and easier to feel seen. I’ve probably already posted more here than I ever have on Reddit.
Yes!
For me the main factor was replies slanted extremely mean on Reddit, whereas here it's only been polite conversation so far.
I'm perfectly willing to talk on a platform where I'm not getting death threats because I didn't like a videogame or whatever.
i'm more interested in participating since i know what i do and say here wont be swallowed by a black hole.
I guess it's because this is something you want to actively grow, as opposed to being a drop in the ocean back at Reddit
I’ve always been a lurker, but I am trying to change. However, I don’t want to comment for the sake of just commenting as well.
There's a common understanding that if you want more activity you need more activity to attract more people. Its a feedback loop that requires engagement. We lurkers know that the best way to help Lemmy grow to a critical mass is to temporarily become active for the sake of fucking over reddit.
Barely ever posted on Reddit, but have already outdone the total post count here. Haven't posted in a while though, mostly because of post-work brain melt
Yep, I feel more comfortable interacting here than on reddit, maybe it's because of the way less toxicity here.
It's the novelty mostly, plus the fact that smaller communities are more fun to engage in. The same thing happened back on Voat.
It's like jump starting the engine. We need a spark
The same happened here. More than 16 years on Reddit, and most of them as a not-very-active lurker. But here? I'm commenting every day.
As a FOSS guy, here I feel at home. From the community to the community.
I had the same lurker status back on reddit and definitely feel more inclined to post here. I think part of it is that for at least right now, individual comments really are setting up the success of lemmy so it feels good to be a part of that. Also, back on reddit those hardcore karma farmers dominated the threads. You had to find niche subreddits for comments to feel like they mattered...everything else was a "why bother" feeling.
Idk i was that mid-level commenter, rare poster on Reddit. There were subs i commented a dozen or more times a day while others i subbed purely to read what others post.
What i like about Lemmy, which is what i liked about Mastodon, is that its not flooded with constant noise. A smaller community means far less garbage.
Less people = less jerks = less fear when reading replies.
Definitely true for me. I was a pure lurker on Reddit. Now with Lemmy I try to engage a lot more. This place needs to come to life (and I feel like we're doing well, so far).
I’ve started commenting more often. I don’t really have much to share/talk about atm, but commenting here is great because there is a significantly reduced chance of someone replying to my comment just to try and 1-UP my ass.
I've posted more but I'm still mostly a lurker. I have enjoyed reading the actual discussion here. The comments at reddit got to be so formulaic and the same across posts, it's refreshing to see actual thought and effort go into making comments.