Could use "betrothed" before and during the wedding, then "spouse" afterwards.
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I like partner instead of spouse, idk spouse seems so impersonal to me lol
if (when?) I marry my gf I'll probably have a hard time swapping from calling her girlfriend lol. thats like more than half of the time how we refer to each other
You can do the boomer joke and call her your ex gf
lol walking around the house and yelling "EX GIRLFRIEND I LOST MY PHONE 😭"
pro tip: you can be married and still call her your gf
Ive been married for just about 10 years and just accidently called my partner my girlfriend like a couple weeks ago 😂😂
how’bout «eternal» for the eternal love you have for each other[s]
“engaged” it's the tech term tho
Betrothed is nice :))
I prefer gride.
I prefer broom!
This is my ex
My wife does not like when i call her my ex girlfriend
Wait till you start calling her “my first wife” when you introduce her to people. That will really get her jimmies in a rustle.
"They swept me off my feet"
Dang it you beat me