Make everyone test before, and regularly re-test. Enjoy
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Stay safe and get tested regularly.
Make sure boundaries and consent are respected, even own :)
When I get bottom surgery and am healed, provided everything goes well, my wife isn't going to know what hit her.
wow y'all are more sexual than me! I have a kinda slutty personality, but I like hands and thighs. There's like no need for bottom surgery or anything. Maybe I'm a cuddle-slut?
As much as I wish I had transitioned earlier in life, it's probably for the best that I waited because I would've been a total slutbucket as a young, hot girl
Have fun, but make sure to stay safe and take care of yourself.
Fucking same lmao
Get a journal and document it all
Daaaamn that is a really good idea! Will do that~
You aren't the only one but pulling off a slut era is harder than it looks. At least it has been for me.
... I could make it easy for you.
I'm open to your plan
😘
Oooooooo spicy
For me it was as soon as I got together with my boyfriend, i turned into a massive slut for him. Just.... Bottom surgery is missing. We talk so often about what we want to but actually doing stuff is always kinda meh because i'm still pretty uncomfortable with so many things. And we both don't like butt stuff so that isn't an option either qwq
Sooo I'm with you. And i'm not even on prog yet xD
oh someone showed me a really cool way to bottom with a gock! basically you bend your dick down so its touching your perineum, put your legs together, and lay down in pronebone position with your butt elevated. then your partner can fuck the space between your girl dick and perineum from behind. you kinda need to keep your hand there to hold it in place, but it feels really good and it doesnt matter if you get hard or not. if anything its better if you dont. your frenulums rub together in such a pleasing way, and they rub on the perineum and thighs at the same time its just mmph. its kinda like advanced frotting, but with the mechanics of bottoming. seriously its really nice you should try it :3
Most of the time i'm even too uncomfortable to have him touch me so it's gonna take me really being horny for me being ok with that...
But thanks for the advice, i'll at least talk with him about it :3
Not me, but about to send this a bunch of people asking "this you?"
Glad I can help <3
It took me much longer after surgery than I expected, but yes.
why wait? we get asked to wait for so many things, might as well go for it. theres lots of stuff you can do besides anal if youre not that into it. also im learning being a slut is a skill you have to practice even if people think youre cute. if you get some practice in now it will be so much easier when you get your kitty. either way best of luck and i hope you have lots of fun :3
I dunno if I'm slutty but I'm more open to a lot of things.
If I'm having a good vibe with a safe person (which probably will need to know them better)
I'm like why not?