Ekybio

It is!

Turns out that living without the fear of your own desires and emotions is pure freedom. If you are in monoamorus relationship and fall in love with a third person, thats a threat. For me right now the same situation is pure bliss. I get to love another human after all, that feels great!

Since Im polyamorous, thats not an issue for me or my partners, every one of us have done that at some point. Though for monoamorous people that is probably kind of insulting and problematic.

Yes even with exactly those words, which is a little funny :D

Respectable answer. Is that a serious inquiry? Or just online talk?

Serious means DM, online talk means you dont need to further comment on the thread here

Fair point. So far I managed great on my end.

Sure why not. I like it when people are direkt with their questions :D

Just tell me if its more about sucking dick then friendship. Dont mind either, just need the clarity

I would do the same for all my friends. And why not? Sexy time with friends should be more common, I dont see a reason not to, if its handled well.

The story is not even fake and gay, because is women on men intercourse >:3

One last piece of advice:

Dont look for dates, look for cool people and find out later who you click with. Changes the expectations and puts less strain on minds and it filters out political imcompatible people. After all, what good is it to just find a nice "date" and then they tell you that abortion is morally wrong?

I live in a bigger city which has some more left and alterntaive leaning areas. Usually there you find some locations where events are hosted.

Not sure about the socialising part, but regular public meetups might be a good point to start

Reading this list reminds me of why I dont date someone from the other side of the political spectrum.

You know that abortion is healthcare? So points 7 and 3 are exclusive to each other. Also a marriage is between a women and a man? Havent read that in a while. At least you wont burn the planet down right away, just my rights and freedom as a human.

2/10, hard pass on that. Lemmy is to progressive for your views. Hell, most regular people are to progressive for your views. I would advise women against dating you. As well as guys :)

I was in a simmilar situation a while ago

For a multitude of reasons I left mainstream society as whole and began hanging out with alternative and queer communities exclusively.

Along with other things I noted my dating experience was improving significantly. Not only did I found other neurodivergent folk with whom a social interaction was fun, but I was influenced by what I actually wanted in a partner.

After becoming poly and beginnging my transition, going back to dating in "normie-space" turned out to be impossible.

At this point I think the difference in what I need and what the mainstream can provide is to large. The people who understand me most are the ones whom I share a connection with, either by having simmilar conditions or modes of thinking in general. Those are the people I want to date and who also want to date me, for simmilar reasons.

Maybe not a feasible option for you, but I know others who have a simmilar story like this. Hope you find a fitting solution

I find it morbidly funny that, in a time where red meat consumption is a mayor source of climate change, there is now a growing disease which basically turns you vegan and its spreading because of said climate change.

It sounds downright like a bioweapon out of sci-fi to force change in society, used by eco-terrorists against the establishment.

With the cuts to the CDC (and everything else honestly) this syndrome will likely spread further, as will all the other diseases carried by ticks.