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[โ€“] BottleBoardBakon@lemmy.ml 71 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

Everybody's gotta eat, but not everyone's gotta fuck a dog

[โ€“] YoureHotCupCake@lemmy.world 18 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

No one has to eat meat, in fact with all the space used for animals we could produce way more food instead.

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[โ€“] helix@feddit.org 8 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Then who has to fuck a dog? Didn't you mean noone has to fuck a dog?

Paging lemmy.world/u/noone

what do you have to say for yourself?

[โ€“] ImminentOrbit@lemmy.world 8 points 3 weeks ago

I think their point is that there are options to not eat the dog either.

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[โ€“] luthis@lemmy.nz 42 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

False premise. Zoophilia isn't condemned because animal rights etc. It's condemned because 'ew WTF we don't want people doing that, to the extent that we will make laws against it.'

It's the same reason that we have laws against incest. Had laws against homosexuality.

I'm not saying it should be allowed because we (some of us) grew up and realised that laws against homosexuality were stupid. Just that, that is the reason. Collective societal disgust. It's only justified by using animal rights (and rightly so, because EW) the same way we justified antihomo laws because it goes against some obscure biblical / Koranic rule.

[โ€“] einkorn@feddit.org 14 points 3 weeks ago (10 children)

It's the same reason that we have laws against incest.

I'd argue it's also the fact that because of the low genetic diversity of the parents children born from incest have a higher chance of developing genetical diseases.

The chance is lower than most people presume but at the same time: why gamble?

[โ€“] Azzu@leminal.space 12 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (11 children)

Yes but that is also a rationalization after the fact. First, it was ew, then we figured out that there were also rational reasons against it.

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[โ€“] graphene@sopuli.xyz 23 points 3 weeks ago

There is no logical consistency except what allows the continued survival and flourishing of life and the human race.

Having sex with animals could get you sick and cause all sorts of problems. Eating animals on the other hand can extend your life beyond a few days and perhaps even into years after you can no longer drink your mother's milk and has very few downsides, especially with the invention of cooking. Sure, we don't need the source of sustenance that is meat today when we have several times more food than is necessary to feed the whole globe and then throw a lot of it away, but this wasn't true for the vast majority of our history. People only a few hundred years ago had to scrape for every protein they could find.

There's no special moral reason because we didn't decide. It's just an instinct, though one that we can examine and ignore if we want.

[โ€“] Lettuceeatlettuce@lemmy.ml 22 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

Most people don't use critical reasoning to make their decisions, hence why most people live their lives in a state of constant contradictions.

My old philosophy professor once told us that the most effective way to expose somebody's lack of critical reasoning about an issue is to just respond with, "who says?"

Basically the Socratic method, ask them to justify the statements they make, and see how they respond. The vast majority of the time, you'll quickly find out that they don't have any good reasons to support their statements. They haven't given them much thought at all, nor much thought to differing views/positions. They live their lives in ways that feel generally "correct" or pleasurable to them, and that's it.

Why do they think it's alright to eat factory farmed meat? Because they like the taste, the thought of billions of animals living short, miserable lives, then being slaughtered and processed for us to consume doesn't horrify or disgust them, so they keep doing it.

Most people when challenged on it will put up some vague attempt to support their actions, "Other animals do it to each other, so why not us?" "Animals don't have sophisticated minds, so it doesn't actually cause them real suffering." "Humans need animal protein to be healthy." etc. All terribly weak arguments that are easily refuted. But most people don't care, because most societies normalize meat consumption and factory farming. They grew up eating meat with other people eating meat all around them, and they never gave it any thought.

Hence why most pet owners who eat meat would be absolutely horrified and disgusted if their dog or cat had a litter and somebody bought all of the puppies/kittens, only to torture, slaughter, and eat them. A completely inconsistent reaction given the fact that the pet owner happily eats other animals that are treated in the same way. But again, they didn't reason themselves into their viewpoint, so they don't worry about being consistent.

This is further confirmed by anecdotes from vegetarians/vegans, who will tell you about all the awkward, unprompted reactions from meat-eaters when they find out they don't eat meat. Many people get very defensive, often making snide or accusatory remarks about vegetarianism/veganism. They don't like the idea that eating factory meat is morally wrong, because they like the taste and don't want to make to effort to change their lifestyle to confirm with that moral principle. So they mock, tease, or try to "expose" inconsistencies in the vegetarian/vegan's own worldview as a defense mechanism.

If they can make the vegetarian/vegan look foolish, then that feels like a win psychologically to them, which provides mental and emotional comfort and allows them to slip back into their lifestyle without needing to confront their own moral failings.

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[โ€“] ThunderQueen@lemmy.world 21 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

This is exactly why many indigenous cultures put an emphasis on thanking the animal for their meat.

[โ€“] sqauffle@slrpnk.net 17 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Can I not also thank a squirrel after sex?

[โ€“] helix@feddit.org 9 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Why a squirrel specifically? ๐Ÿคฃ dear Lord, you're an evil spirit ๐Ÿ˜…

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[โ€“] dawcas@scribe.disroot.org 19 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

If you need for survival to hunt and eat an animal you are just part of the ecosystem, a predator.
Do you need to have sex with another species? In the wild it happens and even rape is natural, but the question could be "would you like to live in a human society like that?".

That said, animal farming is unethical and completely unnecessary nowadays. Most people would agree that killing an animal just for pleasure would be ethically wrong, but then we as a society rape to breed, grow in terrible conditions and kill in nightmarish ways farm animals just because "meat is good".

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[โ€“] Salamanderwizard@lemmy.world 19 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

From what I've been told by rape victims, I'd much rather be murdered.

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[โ€“] teyrnon@sh.itjust.works 17 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

A number of US states agree with op here, some it's legal to have sex with animals within limits, anything over 20 pounds rings a bell for one, alabama maybe. They might have changed those laws because they were getting made fun of idk.

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[โ€“] Fleppensteijn@sh.itjust.works 17 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

People raping and killing for their own enjoyment is sick. Someone else doing the dirty work for our enjoyment (i.e. eating meat), well that's different. If somehow zoophilia were proven to enhance meat flavor, we'd probably be OK with it

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[โ€“] forestbeasts@pawb.social 15 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

It's about squick.

Think about how they call sex with animals "bestiality". It's not "oh it's because it hurts the animals!", it's because "ew, gross, you're stooping to the level of an ANIMAL!".

I don't think it's about consent, either. If you were somehow able to communicate well enough to actually get consent (which, to be clear, is pretty iffy what with the whole language barrier and such), people would still be squicked.

(also I'm pretty sure "zoophilia" is more about being into animals rather than actual sex with them, which is the whole "bestiality" thing. You can be into someone/a group of people without wanting to rape them.)

It's probably because most of society fundamentally doesn't see other animals as people, and therefore killing them is totally fine ("what? they're not people!"), but having sex with them is Evil and Bad ("why would you want to have sex with them? they're not even a person!").

Yeah it makes no sense.

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[โ€“] communism@lemmy.ml 13 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

Because they benefit from eating animals (they enjoy eating them) whereas they don't benefit from having sex with animals (they don't enjoy having sex with animals).

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[โ€“] daggermoon@piefed.world 12 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

In a perfect utopian society I would hope we wouldn't be doing either.

[โ€“] when@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago

Thanks for acknowledging the inconsistencies within social values and showing optimism for the ideal outcome.

[โ€“] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 12 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Really enjoyed this thread.

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[โ€“] kryptonianCodeMonkey@lemmy.world 12 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I'm sure you would hear more than a few say something along the lines of 1) ending their life can be done relatively humanely. And it serves a fundamental purpose, for sustenance. While meat for sustenance is not actually necessary, it is considered a basic staple of our diets and generally acceptable. 2) Having sex with animals, though, harms them in a way and leaves them to live with that harm. It can traumatize the animal. It is inherently inhumane. And it serves no purpose but to satisfy a carnal desire, a morbid curiosity, or a sadistic appetite.

I'm not saying that it is an altogether consistent or sound argument. It is something some can rationalize though. But, frankly, I would call either explanation at least a little bit bullshit.

The answer to either their desire for meat or their revulsion to animal molestation is that their instincts give them those feelings. It is evolution. Animal meats and fats are a calorie dense and nutritionally valuable food source that our ancestors have eaten since before humans existed, and we're mostly wired to enjoy the taste and crave it. A revulsion for sex outside of species helps make sure that we continue to make babies. It's as simple as that.

Some very few people don't have one, the other or both of these instincts, but the vast majority do. Most of those people will happily rationalize the feeling that isn't based in rationality, like above. Some will examine those feelings and rationalize themselves into changing/recontextualizing their feelings or choosing to not act upon them in light of their viewpoint or some virtue they've applied to the question. But most just do what feels right and is normalized and don't ever really truly question it.

And even if you are one of those people who has rationalized themselves into a rationally/morally superior position regarding meat eating, or maybe you never even had an instinctual desire for it, you almost certainly have other habits, values, opinions, etc. that go against every rationality too that just come with human nature.

We're people. We're animals. We have intelligence. We have primal drives. Nobody is morally perfect. Nobody can even agree on what moral perfection is. Morality is both subjective on the whole, and objective for each and every one of us. We just gotta get along.

[โ€“] myszka@lemmy.ml 11 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

While klling an animal for food is sure destructive for the animal, it is constructive for the humanity. It allows us to get all those proteins "for free" instead of producing them ourselves from plants like herbivores do and invest the saved energy in our intelligence to create beautiful and complex things. Whereas copulating with an animal is pure destruction. It harms the living being and leads to no babies and no emotional bond strengthening (contrary to human sex).

Eating animal is still a contradiction, because destruction is there. So I think this problem does need to be somehow overcome. But at least it's outweighed by its positive effects, unlike zoophilia.

[โ€“] SpongyAneurysm@feddit.org 7 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

producing them ourselves from plants like herbivores do

This bit is nonsense. I'll give you a point for meat consumption being an easy source of protein that allowed for some developments during the evolution of humans, that are unlikely to have happened without it. But that is more a question of availability than nutritious properties. In todays surplus society, where we have industrialized agriculture and optimized crops, there is abundant access to plant protein.
And meat is not a unique source of protein either. First of all, you don't even have to eat meat to obtain animal protein. Eggs and dairy have it too. And when it comes to the constitution of protein, eggs were even considered the gold standard for a long time.

Read the following wikipedia article to learn more: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Protein_digestibility_corrected_amino_acid_score

The listed examples should be interesting to you.

While meats are indeed easily digestable and contain useful protein for the human body, so do many plant sources. Soy protein is even on par with eggs, while meats don't reach the same score.
And of course we usually don't eat a single source of protein, and combining different sources, their amino acid profiles can complement each other to form a complete source of protein.

This might've been a bit of a ramble on a side-note when it comes to discussing the ethics of fucking animals, but I'm sure the discussion benefits from getting the facts straight.

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[โ€“] OurToothbrush@lemmy.ml 6 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Eh....

The Psychological Impact of Slaughterhouse Employment: A Systematic Literature Review

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10009492/

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[โ€“] daannii@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago (6 children)

One is torture.

The other is a means of survival.

It's acceptable to kill for survival.

It's not acceptable to torture and hurt for sexual gratification that can be gained solo with no one else involved.

[โ€“] NightFantom@slrpnk.net 22 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Modern meat consumption is very disconnected from survival for most people though.

[โ€“] Naich@piefed.world 13 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (5 children)

More humans could survive with more food if we reused the land growing food for animals for growing food for humans to eat. We would need so much less land that we could rewild a lot of it, and massively reduce the amount of carbon being released into the atmosphere as well.

But people like meat and will react badly to anyone suggesting that eating less is a good idea for everyone.

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[โ€“] BCsven@lemmy.ca 20 points 3 weeks ago

I get what you mean, but as somebody that hasn't eaten meet in 35 years I would argue its not needed for survival.

[โ€“] Kacarott@aussie.zone 17 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

So shouldn't the same logic dictate that it is not acceptable to kill for culinary satisfaction, if nutrition can be gained without killing a creature? (Which is very possible in most parts of the world)

[โ€“] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 9 points 3 weeks ago

You do not need meat to survive lmao. You eat it because you like it, at least be honest with yourself

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[โ€“] trackball_fetish@lemmy.wtf 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
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[โ€“] Mulligrubs@lemmy.world 7 points 3 weeks ago

It's like how soldier rapists are bad, but soldier murderers get a medal.

Humans are fundamentally absurd, no exceptions

[โ€“] mfed1122@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 3 weeks ago

A sufficient majority of people want to eat animals, but not a sufficient majority of people want to fuck them. Morality is indeed completely subjective and defined only by culture

[โ€“] obey@lemmy.wtf 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

If alien species more powerful and smart came to earth i would rather be molested than killed and turned into a sausage.

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[โ€“] Pacrana@mujico.org 6 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

It's simple, actually.

The number of people who like to eat animals is larger than the number people who like to, that.

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[โ€“] gkpy@feddit.org 6 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Society condemns one and accepts the other

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[โ€“] plutopos@lemmy.zip 6 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

But zoophilia is not about consent at all!

Scientists use dummy ostriches to collect sperm. Ostriches approach and... use the dummies, by their own volition.

If there was a human in there, it wouldn't be very different from the perspective of the real ostrich. So it'd be technically possible to consensually bottom an ostrich.

But why the fuck would you do it?

This is what people actually despise about bestiality. It's a gut feeling, before any rationalisation

Edit: you could very much argue that the ostrich dummy method is still non-consensual as it involves some form of trickery. But, regardless, I think it's telling that people would treat it differently depending on whether there was a human in it or not, even though from the animal's perspective there is no difference.

[โ€“] teyrnon@sh.itjust.works 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

You should see what ranchers do with their cows and horses. More strict bestiality laws are usually defeated at their request, because they artificially inseminate their animals, and jerk off their prized bulls and horses, the semen of which is worth more than gold.

Sick fucks, ranchers are the fucking devil. but that's another story.

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[โ€“] rossman@lemmy.zip 6 points 3 weeks ago

Maybe it's whatever grosses them out. A lot of unsanitary stuff is just prohibited out of safety. There's like hunter ethics guides for handling game.

It's interesting but to me it seems more of a health concern. Ironically we laugh when dogs dry hump people. Or when horses get turned on and all.

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